怎样与人沟通 How to communicate with others

Communication is common and important in our daily life. All of us live with others in the society and no one can live cut off from it. Everyday, we must talk to others to give and get information, but how can we communicate with others? Some people claim that they don't know what to say and how to speak to others, strangers especially. I think first you should find a topic that both of you are interested in. Then, pay attention to your manners, speed, pitch, expressions and your body language. You should make others feel comfortable, so that they are willing to talk to you. Last but not the least, being a good listener. Listening to others shows your respect to them. Only when they heard, they want to talk. So do you. Before you talk, listening to others first.

交流在我们的日常生活中是非常常见和重要的。我们所有的人生活在社会中的其他人，没有一个人可以离开它。我们每天必须说话，对别人给予和获取信息，但我们如何与他人沟通?有些人声称，他们不知道该说什么，如何说给别人，特别是陌生人。我觉得首先你应该找到一个你感兴趣的主题，然后，要注意你的态度，速度，音调，表情和身体语言。你应该让别人感到舒服，使他们愿意和你谈谈。最后，但并非最不重要的，是一个很好的听众。听别人表示尊重对方。只有当他们听到，他们想谈谈。你也一样。在你说话之前，听人第一。