4 Secrets Genuinely Happy People Never Told You
Happiness is a choice, and genuinely happy people make the choice to be happy, everyday! But what you may not know is that happy people face challenges, just like ordinary folk, but they challenge themselves, constantly, to live the wonderful life they know they deserve;
1. They’re not happy all the time.
Let’s be honest, nobody is happy all the time, and with good reason. It’s the down that shows us the beauty of the ups. The genuinely happy individual knows this and allows themselves to feel sad or down, naturally. So they embrace the sadness, the tears and the obstacles and give themselves permission to just be. They are human after all.
2. They have learned to say no.
It sounds strange, but saying “no” doesn’t come easy for some people. However, genuinely happy people don’t buy into the idea of keeping others happy if you’r always down as a result. Instead, they exercise their right to say no, and do so in an assertive manner, that neither takes away from their relationships, or their own happiness.
3. They love their flaws.
For them, being perfectly imperfect, is perfect! They’ve come to terms with who they are and have accepted their flaws. They know it is all just a part of what makes them special, and they love it! They understand there is no such thing as perfection!
4. They love to laugh.
The happy person sees the fun, and funny side of life and aims to always look on the bright side. They are truly joyous in laughter and can make even the stony faced individual crack a smile. They know there’s no better healer, along with time, than laughter. It not only lifts their spirits but does a lot to make an otherwise stressful situation easier to manage.