What's an askhole, you ask? It's a word that's come up recently to describe someone who ask for your advice but never follows through on it or does the opposite of what you told them. I'd add to the definition the person who always wants free consulting, coaching, or advice.
Think about it. What has the person you're asking done to be able to give an informed opinion to begin with? If he or she has invested tens of thousands of dollars, and hundreds of hours of training time to get to the point that he or she can give an educated answer. Why should they just give it away for free? If you think they should, then you're an askhole.
God! Jimmy is such an askhole.