打破尴尬的6个妙招，交际达人都在用

前两天小编浏览外网Bright Side时发现了一些缓解尴尬的小妙招，一起来涨姿势吧！

1. Show your interest in the person you're talking to. People just love to talk about themselves, so to break the ice, let them talk. Listen carefully, and try to look interested in what the other person says.

对与你交流的人表现出兴趣。人们喜欢谈论自己，所以要想打破僵局，就让他们畅所欲言。认真聆听，尽量对他们谈论的内容表现出感兴趣的样子。

2. Avoid Yes/No questions. When talking to someone, try to ask more open-ended questions. For example, instead of asking “Are you having a good time?"ask" How did you find out about this event?”

不要提答案为“是”或“否”的问题。跟别人交流时，尽量问答案更加开放的问题。比如，不要问“玩儿得开心吗？”这类问题，而要多问“你是怎么知道这件事的？”这类问题。

open-ended 英 ['əʊpən'endɪd]  美 ['opən'ɛndɪd] 

adj. 开放式的；无限制的；自由回答的；两端未封闭的

3. Let the other person explain things you don't know. If the person you're talking to mentions something new to you, ask him or her to explain this thing to you. Thus, your conversation will last longer.

让另一方向你解释你不懂的东西。如果与你谈话的人提到了一些新事物，让TA跟你解释这些新事物。这样你们的对话就能长一些。

4. Read the news. You may not like reading the latest news very much, but you'll find it very useful to revive a conversation that has come to an uncomfortable silence. Try a simple “Did you hear about what happened there?”

读新闻。你可能不太喜欢读时事新闻，但是当你们的对话陷入沉默时你就会发现新闻的用处了。你可以说“你听说了最近发生的事吗？”

5. Share your experience. If the other person mentions something familiar to you or you’ve also gone through the same situation, don’t hesitate to share your experience. This way you two will become closer.

分享经历。如果另一方提到了你也熟悉的一些事，或者你刚好经历了同样的事情，不要犹豫去分享经历。这样你俩就能变得更亲近一些。

6. Feed their self-esteem. A compliment and a smile can go a long way. Compliments immediately draw people's attention and interest. But be honest, and don't exaggerate!

满足他们的自尊心。称赞和微笑很受用。称赞能很快吸引人们的注意力，勾起他们对你的兴趣。但是要实事求是地称赞，不要太夸张！

这些小技巧你get到了吗？下次不妨用上哦，会有意想不到的结果呢！