商务英语基础会话视频教程(初级)22_How to shake hands at a job interview

小编导语：该视频中主要介绍了有关在面试中如何握手的一些内容，从视频中我们可以学到面试中一些关于握手的礼仪，在这方面你了解多少呢？在面试中，给考官留下一个好的印象是至关重要的。接下来跟着小编一起来学习吧!

Hi, I'm Roz Usheroff, an image and communications specialist.

大家好，我是罗斯.乌舍洛夫，一位外在形象和沟通技巧专家。

People say that the impression clock starts ticking with a handshake.

人们常说，印象是从握手的那一刻就开始了。

And I'm here today to show you how to wow people with a powerful handshake.

今天我将向您展示如何有力的握手来给他人留下深刻印象。

That is when the first impression begins to count.

从那时候开始，第一印象尤为重要。

I'd like to introduce you to my friend, David Coates.

我想把你介绍给我的朋友，大卫·科茨。

Pleased to meet you, Roz.

罗斯，很高兴见到你。

Hi, David. How are you?

嗨，大卫。你好吗?

I'm fine.

我很好。

I'm gonna teach David some ideas about how we can have a more impactful handshake.

我会教给戴维一些心得，关于我们如何更有效的握手。

As we go through the different steps, think about what's your handshake saying about you.

我们会通过不同的步骤，考虑你的握手方式是如何表达的。

So David, when you shake hands,...

所以，大卫，当你握手的时候…

...what I'd like you to think about is not to drop the hand too quickly.

…我希望你思考一下，不要一触到对方的手就马上放下。

So when you put your hand out,...

所以当你伸出手的时候…

...I want you to imagine it's going straight out like this two to three times,...

…我希望你能想象一下，就像这样稍加力度微微抖动两到三次…

...and hold for the length of time it takes to learn the color of my eyes.

…并保持一会儿，眼睛可以和对方直视。

The key here is, if you think about that time frame, from learning the color of their eyes,...

这里最关键的是，如果你考虑握手的时间，可以从对方的眼睛中判断…

...it will make your handshake appear a lot more sincere.

…它会让你的握手显得更真诚。

Another thing, David, is what you don't want to do is flip the person over like this.

大卫，另一件事是你不要把手这样翻过来。

This kind of handshake looks like it's controlling and you're putting the person on the bottom.

这种握手看起来具有控制性，你压制着某人。

Another handshake that you don't want to do is when you take them in a double hand clasp.

另一种握手，你不想这样双手同时握住他人的手。

Unless you know someone very well, that may be a little bit too personal or invasive.

除非你很了解对方，因为这样握手有点太私人，有些侵入性。

Then you have this kind of handshake, which is the fingertip.

那么像这样的握手，握住指尖。

This will show absolutely no confidence in your handshake.

这将表示在握手中，你完全没有信心。

Another idea that you don't want to do is grasping the person's hand all the way up.

另一个想法，你不想这样一直抓住对方的手或手臂。

When you move your hand up their hand,...

当你的手移到对方的手臂上…

...again, that may give off the impression...

…这样会再次让对方觉得…

...that you're trying to take control of the whole meeting that you have.

…你想要控制整个会面。

David, as we shake hands...

大卫，当我们握手的时候…

...we hold on for the length of time it takes to learn the color of their eyes.

…我们要保持一会儿，眼睛直视对方。

As well, what you want to do is make sure that you use the person's name.

同时，你要做的是确保称呼对方的名字。

The key about a handshake is you introduce yourself, repeat back their name...

握手的关键就是你要做自我介绍，复述对方的名字…

...it helps you to remember it.

…这样会帮助你记住对方的名字。

You repeat it back at the beginning of the handshake and at the end of the handshake.

在握手的开始以及结束的时候复述对方的名字。

Thank you so much, David.

大卫，非常感谢。

Thank you Roz, it's a pleasure.

谢谢你，罗斯，非常荣幸。

Pleasure meeting you.

见到你很高兴。

As you can see, he held on for that second longer.

正如你所看到的，他动作持续了几秒。

We now have impact in the first impression and a handshake that was most memorable.

现在，我们有了深刻的第一印象，握手是最令人难忘的。