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无独有偶，这位女子坐下不久，另一个妇女牵着两个四五岁的小孩也进了地铁。这时，杂乱的人群再次为他们让路。同样的，当他们走到长凳前时，两位好心的女孩立即让出位置给那两个小家伙坐。同样的，那位妈妈就径自把孩子的屁股往座位上一放，一句“谢谢”也没有对那两位女孩说，连望也没望，只顾着和她和孩子嬉戏，旁若无人，似乎觉得别人为她的孩子让座是理所当然的。看到此情此景，我禁止不住苦笑了一下，对这两位妇女摇了摇头。
突然间，我的心感到一阵遗憾， 为那个未出生的婴儿和那两个小孩有这样的母亲感到某种程度上的悲哀。我不否认她们都会疼爱自己的孩子，会用尽一切办法去关爱他们，保护他们。但是，一个连基本素质和修养都不具备的母亲，一个连最基本的感恩都不懂的母亲，又如何能教好自己的孩子？或许她们的孩子长大以后会成才，但是可能会在思想和道德层面上有所缺失，而这种缺失，正是他们的母亲从小不懂得教育他们所造成的。在我看来， 一个成功的的父母，不在于能不能把孩子送上清华北大或者是培养成学富五车的人，而在于他们能不能把孩子在思想道德层面上培养成一个有道德和有修养的人。能不能成才由很多个人和环境的因素所决定，父母有时难以控制，但是孩子的品性是否正直善良，则是父母的责任！不能以身作则的父母，孩子也会效仿。
其实，我们社会上像那两位母亲一样的人并不少。很多人在接受别人的捐赠或者帮助时，并不懂得感恩，而是把别人对自己的关爱当作理所当然，就像是别人前辈子欠他的一样。其实，别人没有帮你的义务。别人帮你，只是出于同情你，想助你度过困境。就像平时我们在公交上给老人孩子让坐一样，本来没有人有义务给他们让座。我们让座只是出于对老人孩子的关爱，这并不代表这就是我们的义务。客观来讲，就算别人不让座，你也不能责怪别人，因为别人没有害人犯法，只是不让座罢了。但是一般有素养的人都习惯让座， 这样一来，问题就来了。很多老人，孩子，残疾人以及孕妇们就会以为，别人给他们让座是理所当然的，那是他们应该享受的权利，所以他们在接受别人的心意时可以不必感谢，只要安然地享受这种权利即可。这样毫无疑问严重地歪曲了我们给老弱残让座的初衷了。
在我看来，感恩是一个人非常宝贵的美德。一个人如果不懂得感恩，那么久而久之，他身边的亲人朋友都会渐渐地疏远他，因为他把所有的人对他的好都当成理所当然，并不会知恩图报。这个社会上能够真心对你好的人其实并不多的，那些都是你真正的亲人和朋友。如果你不好好感恩这些人，不珍惜他们，将来他们都离你而去时，你就后悔莫及了。同样的，如果你身边有不懂得感恩的亲人或者朋友，那么你要小心了，因为这样的人最后在你最困难的时候可能会对你不闻不问，弄不好还可能会落井下石。说白了，这样的人并不值得你和他交朋友。 这个世上很多东西是相互的，友情也是。 只有懂得感恩的人才会走到最后，笑到最后。
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学生作业:
Today I received a call from my older brother and he asked me whether my mother had called me and had told me something or not. I told him that I didn’t receive my mother’s call today and asked him why he asked so. Then he told me that my sister-in-law who is his wife had some conflicts with my mother and they had a quarrel with each other just now. He called me and hoped I could say some words and give some comforts to my mother if my mother gives me a call and tells me about this matter. I was quite astonished when I heard that for my sister-in-law and my mother have got along very well since she got married with my brother. And my mother always praised my sister-in-law and said she got a nice daughter-in-law.
The reason why they quarreled is that they couldn’t reach an agreement with each other on how to feed and take care of my nephew who was born two weeks ago. This is the first time they had a quarrel. I felt worried for them and I was afraid that their good relationship would break up for this matter so I gave a call to my mother but she didn’t mention this quarrel and told me that everything was fine with them. When I heard what my mother said, I felt relieved and knew how she is going to deal with this matter. But my feeling for this matter was complicated. I am so afraid of the quarrel in my family that I hope such quarrel won’t happen again. I understand how subtle the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-low is. If they break the relationship and have the first quarrel, the second quarrel would come soon if they have some conflicts again. I hope my mother and sister-in-law would recover as before soon. Harmony is so important for a family. Like an old saying goes, harmony brings wealth.
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理所当然
今天晚上坐地铁去上课，刚好遇到下班的高峰期，地铁内人潮汹涌，挤得连站的位置都可能没有。突然间，有一个大腹便便的女子慢悠悠地走进来。大家见状赶紧给她让路，生怕挤到她和她肚子里未出生的生命，更怕推倒她受伤。当这个女子走到地铁上的长凳旁时，一个很绅士的男子赶紧起来，微笑地给她让座，旁边一个上了年纪的阿姨还生怕她摔倒，扶着她坐下了。我本以为这位女子会很感激地向那名男士和阿姨道谢，可是，结果出乎我的意料。只见这位女子很高傲地坐下，眼睛看也不看那位让座的男士和那位搀扶她的阿姨一眼，一坐下就拿出手机来漫无目的地把弄着，好像觉得别人给她让座是天经地义的一般。无独有偶，这位女子坐下不久，另一个妇女牵着两个四五岁的小孩也进了地铁。这时，杂乱的人群再次为他们让路。同样的，当他们走到长凳前时，两位好心的女孩立即让出位置给那两个小家伙坐。同样的，那位妈妈就径自把孩子的屁股往座位上一放，一句“谢谢”也没有对那两位女孩说，连望也没望，只顾着和她和孩子嬉戏，旁若无人，似乎觉得别人为她的孩子让座是理所当然的。看到此情此景，我禁止不住苦笑了一下，对这两位妇女摇了摇头。
突然间，我的心感到一阵遗憾， 为那个未出生的婴儿和那两个小孩有这样的母亲感到某种程度上的悲哀。我不否认她们都会疼爱自己的孩子，会用尽一切办法去关爱他们，保护他们。但是，一个连基本素质和修养都不具备的母亲，一个连最基本的感恩都不懂的母亲，又如何能教好自己的孩子？或许她们的孩子长大以后会成才，但是可能会在思想和道德层面上有所缺失，而这种缺失，正是他们的母亲从小不懂得教育他们所造成的。在我看来， 一个成功的的父母，不在于能不能把孩子送上清华北大或者是培养成学富五车的人，而在于他们能不能把孩子在思想道德层面上培养成一个有道德和有修养的人。能不能成才由很多个人和环境的因素所决定，父母有时难以控制，但是孩子的品性是否正直善良，则是父母的责任！不能以身作则的父母，孩子也会效仿。
其实，我们社会上像那两位母亲一样的人并不少。很多人在接受别人的捐赠或者帮助时，并不懂得感恩，而是把别人对自己的关爱当作理所当然，就像是别人前辈子欠他的一样。其实，别人没有帮你的义务。别人帮你，只是出于同情你，想助你度过困境。就像平时我们在公交上给老人孩子让坐一样，本来没有人有义务给他们让座。我们让座只是出于对老人孩子的关爱，这并不代表这就是我们的义务。客观来讲，就算别人不让座，你也不能责怪别人，因为别人没有害人犯法，只是不让座罢了。但是一般有素养的人都习惯让座， 这样一来，问题就来了。很多老人，孩子，残疾人以及孕妇们就会以为，别人给他们让座是理所当然的，那是他们应该享受的权利，所以他们在接受别人的心意时可以不必感谢，只要安然地享受这种权利即可。这样毫无疑问严重地歪曲了我们给老弱残让座的初衷了。
在我看来，感恩是一个人非常宝贵的美德。一个人如果不懂得感恩，那么久而久之，他身边的亲人朋友都会渐渐地疏远他，因为他把所有的人对他的好都当成理所当然，并不会知恩图报。这个社会上能够真心对你好的人其实并不多的，那些都是你真正的亲人和朋友。如果你不好好感恩这些人，不珍惜他们，将来他们都离你而去时，你就后悔莫及了。同样的，如果你身边有不懂得感恩的亲人或者朋友，那么你要小心了，因为这样的人最后在你最困难的时候可能会对你不闻不问，弄不好还可能会落井下石。说白了，这样的人并不值得你和他交朋友。 这个世上很多东西是相互的，友情也是。 只有懂得感恩的人才会走到最后，笑到最后。
____________________________________
学生作业:
Today I received a call from my older brother and he asked me whether my mother had called me and had told me something or not. I told him that I didn’t receive my mother’s call today and asked him why he asked so. Then he told me that my sister-in-law who is his wife had some conflicts with my mother and they had a quarrel with each other just now. He called me and hoped I could say some words and give some comforts to my mother if my mother gives me a call and tells me about this matter. I was quite astonished when I heard that for my sister-in-law and my mother have got along very well since she got married with my brother. And my mother always praised my sister-in-law and said she got a nice daughter-in-law.
The reason why they quarreled is that they couldn’t reach an agreement with each other on how to feed and take care of my nephew who was born two weeks ago. This is the first time they had a quarrel. I felt worried for them and I was afraid that their good relationship would break up for this matter so I gave a call to my mother but she didn’t mention this quarrel and told me that everything was fine with them. When I heard what my mother said, I felt relieved and knew how she is going to deal with this matter. But my feeling for this matter was complicated. I am so afraid of the quarrel in my family that I hope such quarrel won’t happen again. I understand how subtle the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-low is. If they break the relationship and have the first quarrel, the second quarrel would come soon if they have some conflicts again. I hope my mother and sister-in-law would recover as before soon. Harmony is so important for a family. Like an old saying goes, harmony brings wealth.
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