Letters Live丨英国版《见字如面》——凯特琳·莫兰读信:给女儿写的人生忠告(3)
“Four: choose your friends because you feel most like yourself around them,
第四点：广交益友，因为在朋友身边你才能找到自己，
because the jokes are easy and you feel like you’re in your best outfit when you’re with them, even though you’re just in a T-shirt.
因为谈笑更加放松，当你和朋友相处时，你才能找到自己最舒适的状态，即使只是穿着t恤。
Never love someone whom you think you need to mend – or who makes you feel like you should be mended.
永远不要去爱一个你认为需要改变的人，或者一个让你觉得自己需要做出改变的人。
There are boys out there who look for shining girls;
很多男孩都在寻找出众的女孩；
they will stand next to you and say quiet things in your ear that only you can hear and that will slowly drain the joy out of your heart.
他们会站在你旁边，轻咬耳朵讲一些只有你能听到的悄悄话，这会慢慢地耗尽你内心的快乐。
You've had one of those, I can mend them. The books about vampires are true, baby. You must drive a stake through their hearts and run away.
你们经历过吧，我可以祝你们一臂之力。那些写吸血鬼的书是真的，宝贝。听我的，用木桩刺穿他们的心脏然后敬而远之。
