英语美文朗读 第531期 Creat the best version of yourself
The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. It's not even holding on to any anger at all. It's moving on with your life. It's showing them that life is so much better after they're gone.
最好的报复，就是根本不去报复，完全不生气，继续过自己的生活，让你恨的人看到，没有了他们，你的生活变得更加美好了。
Having an excuse or a story of why they aren't where they want to be gets them sympathy from others. The victim role gives them comfort. And it is much easier than taking responsibility and moving on with their life. However, it is not, and will never be a happy place to stay.
人们没有实现自己的目标，就会用借口来解释，向别人诉说自己的痛苦经历，这样，别人就会同情他们。作为受害者，这个身份让人们感到安心。相比之下，如果要去承担责任，继续生活，这比当个受害者难多了。然而，当个受害者，并不会让事情变得轻松，长此以往，你也不会感到快乐。
Those who take responsibility for their life and are wanting to move on and put the past behind them are much more likely to gain freedom, success and happiness. Now, this does not mean there aren't horrible people in the world that have done wrong by others.
为自己的人生负责的人，想放下过去、继续前行的人，他们更容易获得自由，成功，快乐。这不是说，那些冤枉别人、误解别人的人，是不存在的。
It is not condoning other's behavior. It is taking back the power they have from you, when you are the one suffering long after they are gone.
我的意思是，我们不能容忍他人的不良行为。如果，他们消失之后，我们仍然感到痛苦，那么，我们就要夺回他们从我们身上带走的能量。
Who wins if you keep blaming them? Who wins if you move on, forget about them and create the best life and success you could ever imagine? Who wins if you move on? Who wins if you forget about them? Who wins if you create your best ever life, full of success and abundance? You win!
如果，你一直怪罪他们，谁是赢家?如果，你继续前行，忘掉他们，创造最美好的人生，获取最大的成功，谁是赢家?如果，你继续前行，谁是赢家?如果，你忘掉他们，谁是赢家?如果，你创造了最美好的人生，成为人生赢家，拥有丰富的生活，谁是赢家?是你!你是赢家!
How good does it feel to take that baggage off your shoulders? To focus on building your future. What a blessing! Let go. Move forward. Never look back. The best revenge is not taking any revenge. It is simply moving on with your life, creating the best version of yourself.
如果你放下包袱，这种感觉会有多棒?专注于创造自己的未来，这是多么幸福的事情!放下过去吧，继续前行吧，永远不要回头看。最好的报复，就是不要报复，而是继续前行，创造最好的自己。
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