双语脱口秀《老外来了》:英语世界里的这8条社交潜规则，让你到哪儿都招人喜欢！
主播：翩翩老师，Peter老师
歌曲：Hero-Family of the year
1 - Make other people feel like experts.
让他人觉得他们就是专家
Is it true that mercury evaporates at room temperature?
水银在室内常温状态下会蒸发是真的吗?
Do you know why I always get this error message?
你知道为什么我(的电脑)老是出现错误信息吗?
2 - Deliberately over apologize.
谨慎地道歉
This is an important skill to learn as it usually removes any hard feelings very quickly. This is not easy to do if you have a big ego, however.
这是一项很重要的技能，它会快速消除痛苦。不过，如果你过于自我的话，做起来并不容易。
3 - Give heartfelt compliments.
给予诚挚的赞美
Tell people how much you appreciate them. I think it’s better to compliment people face to face. It tends to mean more.
告诉他人你有多么地感激和欣赏他们。尤其是面对面地去赞美他人是非常重要的。
4 - Notice positive things about other people.
关于他人积极的赞美
I like your new haircut, very cool!
我很喜欢你的新发型，很酷!
Have you dyed your hair? The new colour suits you well.
你染头发了吗?这个颜色很适合你哦。
Have you been working out? You’re looking lean and strong.
你有在健身吗?你看上很健壮很健康!
Wow, you’re glowing with joy. Very useful to use after a positive event, such as a wedding. Be careful though, don’t mention weight.
哇哦，你真是容光焕发啊。比如说在朋友的婚礼上，这句话非常有用。温馨提示，不要说他人的体重哦。
5 - Look at everyone while talking.
尽量与每一位听众都有目光交流
Distribute your eye contact evenly. If someone appears to lose focus on interest, ask them a question.
尽可能地让你的目光与每一位听众都有交流，如果觉得有人注意力不集中，你可以问他们一个问题来找回注意力。
6 - Be straightforward with people
与人坦诚
Don't beat around the bush.
不要绕弯子;不要拐弯抹角。
7 - Know how to accept compliments.
知道如何接受赞美
Many people try to be modest. There's nothing wrong with reacting by saying ‘thanks, hearing that feels really good’.
许多人比较谦虚，最好是说一句“谢谢，听你这样说真的很开心。”
Thank you, and that means a lot to me .
谢谢，这对我很重要。
8 - Be a good listener.
作一名好的倾听者
Listening isn't just hearing, it's about asking questions that help you understand the other person.倾听不仅仅是听，还要理解，知道他人在讲什么。
