I could have denied so many things—that I longed to touch his knees and wrists when they glistened in the sun with that viscous sheen I’ve seen in so very few; that I loved how his white tennis shorts seemed perpetually stained by the color of clay, which, as the weeks wore on, became the color of his skin; that his hair, turning blonder every day, caught the sun before the sun was completely out in the morning; that his billowy blue shirt, becoming ever more billowy when he wore it on gusty days on the patio by the pool, promised to harbor a scent of skin and sweat that made me hard just thinking of it. All this I could have denied. And believed my denials.
 
我大可否认许多事。否认我渴望碰触他在太阳下会闪光的膝盖和手腕，我很少见到那样黏腻的光泽；否认我爱他的白色网球裤上似乎总有土色污渍，而几周过去，那污渍仿佛已与他的肤色化为一体；否认他每一天都愈发金黄的发色，在早晨太阳完全升起之前已经闪耀着阳光的金色；否认大风吹起时，他在游泳池畔的露台处穿起来更显波澜壮阔的那件大波浪蓝色宽衬衫，那下面肯定隐藏着只是一想到就令我硬起来的体味和汗味。我可以否认这一切，自欺欺人地相信这一切都不是真的。
 
But it was the gold necklace and the Star of David6 with a golden mezuzah7 on his neck that told me here was something more compelling than anything I wanted from him, for it bound us and reminded me that, while everything else conspired to make us the two most dissimilar beings, this at least transcended all differences. I saw his star almost immediately during his first day with us. And from that moment on I knew that what mystified me and made me want to seek out his friendship, without ever hoping to find ways to dislike him, was larger than anything either of us could ever want from the other, larger and therefore better than his soul, my body, or earth itself. Staring at his neck with its star and telltale amulet was like staring at something timeless, ancestral, immortal in me, in him, in both of us, begging to be rekindled and brought back from its millenary sleep.
 
是他脖子上的金项链和带有金门柱圣卷的大卫之星，告诉我存在着比我对他的任何渴望还要吸引人的东西，因为这条项链将我们联结在一起，提醒着我就算其他的一切都在合力证明我们俩是最不相似的两种存在，但至少，至少这一点超越了一切差异。几乎是他来到的第一天，我就看见了他脖子上那个大卫之星。从那一刻起，我就知道是什么令我迷惑不解、令我渴求他的友谊，甚至从来不希望找到他惹人讨厌的毛病；这个“什么”比我们渴望从彼此身上得到的任何东西还要广大、深远而重要，所以也远凌驾于他的灵魂、我的身体或尘世本身之上。凝视他戴着星形项链及泄露秘密的护身符的脖颈。就像凝视我的、他的以及我们体内共同的承继先祖、永恒不朽，祈求着从千年沉睡中被重燃、被召回的部分。
 
What baffled me was that he didn’t seem to care or notice that I wore one too. Just as he probably didn’t care or notice each time my eyes wandered along his bathing suit and tried to make out the contour of what made us brothers in the desert.
 
令我不解的是，他似乎丝毫不在乎或者根本没发觉我也戴了一个大卫之星。就像他或许不在乎或者从没注意到我的眼神总是在他的泳衣上游移，想要弄明白究竟是什么使我们成为荒漠里的兄弟。

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