人生有时是很尴尬的，如何委婉的提出建议

今天的这段对话，在讨论建议，

 

人生有时是很尴尬的，如何委婉的提出建议

 

来听今天的讲解:

 

A:  So how's your day going?

 

今天过得怎么样？

 

B:  It's a fiesta. Kyle channeled a superna-tural dimension.

 

真是大狂欢啊。Kyle开通了灵异空间。

 

A:  What?

 

什么？

 

B:  The Oujia board. It spelled out some weird numbers for him. He was totally pushing it.

 

那个Oujia盘拼出了一些奇怪的数字，肯定是他自己推的。

 

A:  Well, fo course he was, but he may not realize he was doing it. In which case, maybe it's another memory trying to claw its way out. Did he say he knew what the numbers mean?

 

那当然，不过他可能没有意识到他那么做了。这么说，可能是另一个记忆要出现了，他说没说那些数字代表什么？

 

B:  Of course not, that would be too easy.

 

当然没有，那就太容易了。

 

A:  Well, I have to talk to him about it.

 

我得和他谈谈这事。

 

B:  He saked it when his birthday was.

 

他问他的生日是哪天。

 

A:  Yeah, he's having a really hard time with that today.

 

是啊，他今天很难过。

 

B:  Everyone's weird today. Even Declan, who's usually dependably unweird.

 

大家今天都很怪，Declan平时都很正常的，今天也很奇怪。

 

A:  So, um, what's going on with him?

 

他是怎么回事？

 

B:  I don't know. He won't talk to me and I haven't mastered the art of shrinking like you have.

 

我不知道。他不愿和我说，而且我也不像你掌握了心理医生的艺术。

 

A:  Well, sometimes the easiest way to get somebody to open up is to just be there for them without judgement when they're ready to spill.

 

有时让别人敞开心扉的最容易的办法就是等他们想说的时候在那里聆听，不要乱下结论。

 

B:  Yeah, see, that's the problem. I live for judgement.

 

你看，这就是问题。我活着就为了做结论。

 

A:  You and Declan definitely seem to be getting closer.

 

你和Declan确实看起来更靠近了。

 

B:  Yeah, I guess.

 

我猜是吧。

 

A:  I guess you probably feel that you're ready for more. Physically, I mean.

 

我猜你可能感觉你可以更进一步了，我的意思是身体上的。

 

B:  Are you shrinking me right now?

 

你在对我心理学交谈吗？

 

A:  Shrinking, morning ... you know, whatever works.

 

心理学，母亲的担心，只要管用就行。

 

B:  Stick to baking; it's less mortifying.

 

你还是烤蛋糕吧，这个让我不那么尴尬。

 

A:  You know, life can be mortifying sometimes. And trust me, sometimes sex can be, too.

 

你知道，人生有时是很尴尬的，相信我，有时性也是。

 

B:  That's straying from the usual'when two people love each other, they make beautiful magic script.'

 

你通常可以说“当两个人相爱时他们就会创造奇迹”。

 

A:  Well, that's true, too. It's just that it doesn't always happen that way. Especially if you rush into things.

 

那也对。只是不总是那样。尤其当你不谨慎的时候。

 

B:  You're right.

 

你说得对。

 

A:  I am?

 

是吗？

 

B:  I'm not ready.

 

我是没准备好。