温德姆-伯克与肖恩·伯克离婚:“我终于可以开始我的下一个篇章了”

Braunwyn Windham-Burke and Sean Burke are officially a wrap.

布劳恩·温德姆·伯克和肖恩·伯克正式结束了。

PEOPLE can confirm that the former Real Housewives of Orange County stars' divorce was finalized on Friday, more than a year after she filed to end their 23-year marriage.

《人物》杂志可以证实，这位前《橘子郡的真实主妇》女星于周五正式离婚，距离她提出结束他们23年的婚姻已经过去了一年多。

The former couple was granted 50/50 custody of their seven children: Bella, 23; Rowan, 21; Jacob, 17; 10-year-old twins Caden and Curren; Koa, 8; and Hazel, 5. Sean was ordered in April to pay Brauwnyn $5,000 a month in spousal support and $6,000 per month in child support.

这对前夫妇平分了七个孩子的抚养权:23岁的贝拉;罗文,21岁;17雅各;10岁的双胞胎凯登和柯伦;洋槐,8;黑兹尔5岁。今年4月，肖恩被判每月向布劳宁支付5000美元的配偶抚养费和6000美元的子女抚养费。

"Today feels like the first day of the rest of my life," Braunwyn tells PEOPLE. "You know, you go your whole life with everyone telling you what you need to do to be happy. And it gets to a certain point where you say, 'No, actually — this is what I want to do. I'm going to live for me.' And I'm thrilled that at 45 years old, I get a second chance to live for me."

“今天感觉像是我余生的第一天，”布劳恩告诉《人物》杂志。“你知道，在你的一生中，每个人都告诉你要做什么才能快乐。到了一定程度，你会说，‘不，实际上，这就是我想做的。我要为自己而活。”我很激动，在45岁的时候，我得到了第二次为自己而活的机会。”

The second chance for Braunwyn will be her upcoming wedding to fiancée Jennifer Spinner. "I can finally walk down the aisle for real now," she jokes. "I'm really excited to be able to start my next chapter."

布劳温的第二次机会将是她与未婚夫詹妮弗·斯宾纳即将举行的婚礼。“我现在终于可以真正走上红毯了，”她开玩笑说。“我真的很兴奋能够开始我的下一个篇章。”

She and Spinner will also be moving out of the house they share with Sean in Tennessee.

她和斯宾纳也将搬出他们在田纳西州与肖恩合住的房子。

"We moved out here and never really anticipated Sean would be moving in with us, but we tried the whole 'bird nest parenting' thing and it just isn't working," Braunwyn says. "So Jen and I are moving into our own home in December, and the kids will be moving back and forth. It's within walking distance so it'll just be better for everyone involved."

布劳恩说:“我们搬到这里，从来没有真正想到肖恩会搬来和我们一起住，但我们试过‘燕窝式育儿’，但就是不管用。”“所以珍和我将在12月搬到我们自己的家，孩子们将来回走动。步行就能到达，所以对每个人来说都更好。”

Braunwyn — who got sober in January 2020 and came out as a lesbian nearly a year later — and Spinner have been dating since July 2022, after meeting over Instagram.

布劳恩温于2020年1月戒酒，近一年后以女同性恋身份出柜，两人在Instagram上相识，自2022年7月开始约会。

In the time they've been together, the two women have taken many steps to show off their commitment. They exchanged promise rings in January, committed to one another in a Las Vegas wedding chapel on Valentine's Day, moved together to Tennessee in the spring and got a pair of matching tattoos to mark their bond in July.

在他们在一起的时间里，这两个女人采取了许多措施来展示她们的承诺。他们在一月份交换了承诺戒指，在情人节那天在拉斯维加斯的婚礼教堂承诺彼此，在春天一起搬到田纳西州，并在七月纹了一对相匹配的纹身来纪念他们的关系。

To celebrate their first date, Braunwyn surprised Spinner by proposing at 14th Street Park in New York City — steps away from where they had their first kiss.

为了庆祝他们的第一次约会，布劳温在离他们初吻的地方只有几步之遥的纽约市第14街公园向斯宾纳求婚，给了斯宾纳一个惊喜。

"I've never been happier," Windham-Burke told PEOPLE at the time of the milestone. "Jen is my person. She said to me once, 'How much do you love me?' And I looked at her and said, 'It's not how much I love you. It's how small I love you. I love you on a molecular level.' And that's really it. My DNA was made for her."

“我从来没有这么开心过，”温德姆-伯克在这一里程碑式的时刻告诉《人物》杂志。“珍是我的人。有一次她对我说:“你有多爱我?”我看着她说:‘重要的不是我有多爱你。而是我对你的爱有多渺小。我在分子层面上爱你。”就是这样。我的DNA就是为她而生的。”