约翰·梅耶尔“绝对”想结婚，他开玩笑地将其归因于“可靠性问题”

John Mayer has long been a bachelor, but he hopes to change that one day.

约翰·梅尔一直是单身汉，但他希望有一天能改变这种现状。

“I’ve never told anyone this. People don’t think I want to be married. I absolutely want to be married,” Mayer, 46, told Kelly Rizzo in a People clip of the Sunday, January 7, episode of her “Comfort Food” podcast. “You know the secret, which is that I’m actually fairly well-adjusted. I so badly want to get married if only for my wife to just know in her heart, like, ‘John will know what to do.’”

46岁的Mayer在《人物》杂志上对Kelly Rizzo说：“我从来没有告诉过任何人。人们认为我不想结婚。我绝对想结婚。” 1月7日，星期日，她的“安慰食品”播客的片段。“你知道秘密，那就是我实际上已经适应得很好了。我非常想结婚，只要我妻子心里知道，‘约翰会知道该怎么办的。’”

He added: “I just think that level of being relied on is the hottest thing in the world to me. Like, ‘If my husband was here, he would know what to do. Call John. Call my husband.’ I just think … you’re a full grown-up when this is your romantic fantasy. You’re a fully-fledged grown-up.”

他补充道：“我只是觉得这种程度的依赖对我来说是世界上最热门的事情。比如，‘如果我丈夫在这里，他会知道该怎么办。给约翰打电话。给我丈夫打电话。’我只是觉得……当这是你的浪漫幻想时，你就是一个完全的成年人。你是一个完全成熟的成年人。”

Rizzo, 44, was married to Mayer’s close friend Bob Saget before his 2022 death. She responded to the musician’s admission by speculating about his relationship desires.

现年44岁的里佐在梅耶尔2022年去世前与他的密友鲍勃·萨吉特结婚。她对这位音乐家的承认作出了回应，推测了他的恋爱愿望。

“Your kink is that you want someone to be like, ‘John’s got a guy,’” Rizzo quipped.

里佐打趣道：“你的怪癖是，你想让别人说‘约翰有个男人’。”

Mayer wholeheartedly agreed, adding,  “Reliance kink? Oh my God. Dependability kink, yes!”

梅耶尔全心全意地表示同意，并补充道：“依赖性变态？哦，我的上帝。是的，依赖性变态！”

The “Your Body is a Wonderland” singer has been involved in high-profile romances with the likes of Jessica Simpson — who he once controversially described as “sexual napalm”  — Jennifer Aniston, Taylor Swift — who is thought to have written multiple songs about their age gap — and Katy Perry.

这位“Your Body is a Wonderland”歌手与杰西卡·辛普森、詹妮弗·安妮斯顿、泰勒·斯威夫特和凯蒂·佩里。

In recent years, dating has taken a backseat for Mayer since he got sober.

近年来，自从梅尔清醒后，约会就退居次要地位。

“Dating is no longer a codified activity for me. I don’t really date,” he said during a December 2022 episode of the “Call Her Daddy” podcast. “I don’t think that I have to, to be quite honest. I quit drinking like six years ago, so I don’t have the liquid courage. I just have dry courage.”

“对我来说，约会不再是一项成文的活动。我真的不约会，”他在2022年12月的“叫她爸爸”播客中说道。“老实说，我不认为我必须这么做。我像六年前一样戒了酒，所以我没有流动的勇气。我只有干涸的勇气。”

He continued at the time: “You have to be honest. You have to express yourself. You have to be really glaringly honest. You have to express your anxieties. You can’t just walk over them by drinking. You have to be like, ‘This is what I’m anxious about.’ And when someone in life accommodates your anxiety, that’s bonding. I don’t think I’m truly connected with someone until I freak out a little bit and they go, ‘It’s OK.’”

他当时继续说道：“你必须诚实。你必须表达自己。你必须非常坦率。你必须表现出你的焦虑。你不能只是通过喝酒来克服它们。你必须说，‘这就是我焦虑的地方。’当生活中有人能适应你的焦虑时，这就是纽带。我不认为我真的与某人有联系，直到我有点抓狂，他们说，‘没关系。’”

Seemingly referencing his long list of celebrity exes, Mayer posited to podcast host Alex Cooper that he’s never been able to get fully comfortable with a partner.

梅耶尔似乎提到了他的一长串名人前任，他向播客主持人亚历克斯·库珀提出，他从来都无法与伴侣相处得完全舒服。

“I haven’t really got to the part of relationship that was the ‘smooth sailing’ part,” he said. “I have a feeling when I do, I’m gonna have a lot to work on — but I’ll be excited to work on it.”

他说：“我还没有真正谈到关系中‘一帆风顺’的部分。”“我有一种感觉，当我这样做的时候，我会有很多工作要做——但我会很兴奋地去做。”