美国演员伊娃·门德斯谈放弃演艺圈做全职妈妈:“我很幸运。”

Eva Mendes hasn't appeared in a movie for a decade, but she has been enjoying her role as a stay-at-home mom.
伊娃·门德斯已经有10年没有出演过电影了，但她一直很享受扮演一个全职妈妈的角色。

In a recent interview with Today, the Hitch and 2 Fast 2 Furious star opened up about her decision to step back from acting and focus on being a mother to her two children with Ryan Gosling.
在最近接受《今日》采访时，这位《速度与激情2》的主演透露了她决定退出演艺圈，专注于和瑞恩·高斯林养育两个孩子的决定。

"It was like a no-brainer," Mendes said of hitting pause on her acting career. "I'm so lucky, and I was like, if I can have this time with my children — and I've still worked, I just didn't act, because acting takes you on locations, it takes you away."
门德斯在谈到暂停自己的演艺生涯时说:“这是一件无需动脑筋的事。”“我很幸运，我想，如果我能和我的孩子们在一起——我还在工作，我只是没有演戏，因为演戏需要你去外景，它把你带走了。”

Mendes added that she and Gosling, who have been together since 2011, agreed to a division of labor where he would continue to act and she would stay home with their kids, Esmerelda, 9, and Amada, 7. "It was almost a non-verbal agreement," she said. "It was like, okay, he's gonna work and I'm gonna work, I'm just gonna work here."
门德斯补充说，她和高斯林从2011年开始在一起，他们同意分工，他继续演戏，她留在家里照顾他们的孩子，9岁的埃斯梅拉达和7岁的阿玛达。“这几乎是一项非口头协议，”她说。“就像，好吧，他会工作，我也会工作，我就在这里工作。”

Raised by a single mother after her parents split, Mendes grew up knowing she wanted some kind of career on camera. Her breakout role came in Training Day, and she went on to appear in films including Ghost Rider, We Own the Night, Bad Lieutenant: Port of Call New Orleans, and The Other Guys.
门德斯的父母离异后，她由单亲妈妈抚养长大，从小她就知道自己想要从事摄影事业。她的突破角色出现在《训练日》中，她继续出现在电影中，包括《鬼骑士》、《我们拥有黑夜》、《坏中尉:新奥尔良港口》和《其他人》。

But everything changed when she met Gosling making The Place Beyond the Pines. "I've never experienced anything like that," she marveled. "The way he works, his commitment, his craft, how he wants to make everything as best as it can be and that means making his costars as best as they can be."
但当她在《松林之外》中遇到高斯林时，一切都变了。“我从来没有经历过这样的事情，”她惊讶地说。“他的工作方式，他的承诺，他的手艺，他想要把一切都做到最好的方式，这意味着让他的合作演员尽其所能。”

Mendes said it was partly how special the experience of working with Gosling was that made her want to quit acting. "Unfortunately, or fortunately, there's only one Ryan, so I pretty much stopped acting after that," she noted.
门德斯说，与高斯林合作的特殊经历让她想要退出演艺圈。“不幸的是，或者是幸运的是，只有一个瑞恩，所以从那以后我几乎就不再演戏了，”她说。

While raising their children, Mendes remains supportive of Gosling's career. Most recently, she celebrated his performance of "I'm Just Ken" at the Oscars on her social media pages. "He went and did his job," she said of his lauded live performance. "He just happens to be really good at his job, and he came home."
在抚养孩子的同时，门德斯仍然支持高斯林的事业。最近，她在自己的社交媒体主页上庆祝了他在奥斯卡颁奖典礼上演唱的《我只是肯》。“他去做了他的工作，”她谈到了他备受赞誉的现场表演。“他只是碰巧真的很擅长他的工作，然后他就回家了。”

Mendes also talked about her new role as a co-owner and spokeswoman for Skura Style, a sponge business. Though she did confess that there's a particular film project that would "bring her back with a vengeance," even if she wouldn't reveal what it was.
门德斯还谈到了她作为Skura Style的合伙人和发言人的新角色，这是一家海绵公司。虽然她承认有一个特别的电影项目会“带着复仇带她回来”，尽管她没有透露是什么。

Last May, Mendes also told The View she was hoping to return to acting eventually, even if her role as a mom made her think more seriously about what she wouldn't do on screen. "I have such a short list of what I will do, before kids I kinda was up for anything," she said. "I mean, if it was a fun project. But now I won't do violence, I don't want to do sexuality, the list is short."
去年5月，门德斯还告诉《观点》杂志，她希望最终能回归演艺圈，即使母亲的角色让她更认真地考虑自己不会在银幕上做什么。她说:“在有孩子之前，我对自己要做的事情有一个很短的清单，我什么都想做。”“我的意思是，如果这是一个有趣的项目。但现在我不会做暴力，我不想做性，名单很短。”

Gosling and Mendes have been famously private about their relationship, which makes her openness on the Today show somewhat unprecedented. She last appeared on the big screen in 2014's Lost River, which Gosling wrote and directed.
众所周知，高斯林和门德斯一直对他们的关系守口如瓶，这使得她在《今日秀》上的公开程度有些前所未有。她上一次出现在大银幕上是2014年的《失落的河》，该片由高斯林自编自导。