他其实没那么喜欢你 第68期:分手方式的选择

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A guy says he doesn't want to be with you.

一个男人说他再也不想跟你在一起了。

Sometimes that guy realizes he's made the biggestmistake of his life.

有时候这个男人会意识到他犯了人生中最严重的错误。

And then sometimes he doesn't.

但是有些时候他不会。

Either way, either way, your only job is to move on with your life, and fast.

不管怎样，无论如何，你唯一的工作就是继续你的生活，并且要快。

He can always try to chase you down as you're running down the block.

他总能设法追到你跑步的街区。

If he does, just remember that it will sound like this: "Let's get back together." "Let's go intocounseling." "Let's try again." "I miss you. I made a mistake. I want to be with you."

如果他这么做了，记住话应该是这么讲的：“让我们复合吧。”“让我们去咨询处吧。”“让我们再试试吧。”“我想你。我错了，我想和你在一起。”

Here's what it won't sound like: "Will you walk my dog?" "Just calling to check in." "Want to seethat movie?" "Will you go to Cousin George's wedding with me?"

而不是这么说的：“你能帮我遛狗么?”“只是打个电话问问。”“想去看那部电影么?”“想跟我一起去参加乔治表哥的婚礼么?”

Here's What's Hard About This One, by Liz

这就是事情如此难办的原因，莉兹

Oh, I don't know, how about loving someone and being with them and knowing their family andfriends and every inch of their body and seeing them naked every day and never having felt thisway before and feeling like your whole life has changed for the better and compiling hours anddays and weeks of happy memories and thinking you'll spend the rest of your life together andthen finding out that in fact he doesn't even want to see you...tomorrow.

噢，我不知道这样会怎样：爱上一个人，和他们在一起，了解他们的家人和朋友，熟悉他们身体的每一寸，每日裸裎相见，从未有过如此感觉，觉得自己的生活全部变的美好了起来，收集每时每刻、每日每周的快乐记忆，认为自己会跟他共度余生，却发现事实上，他明天甚至都不想再见到你。

And so is it so wrong to wait around looking for a glimmer, a ray, a sign of hope from him thatperhaps he has second thoughts about it?

而且在附近等待着一丝、一束、一个希望的信号，希望他能够再考虑一下是非常错误的做法。

That perhaps he has come to his senses and realized you were the best thing that everhappened to him, that no one will ever be as good to him as you were, that he won't findanyone who he can connect with on such a deep and profound level and who understands himas much as you do? Is that so wrong?

也许他会恢复理智，意识到你是他生命中最棒的存在，没有人能比你对他更好，他再也找不到一个和你一样相知甚深、如此理解他的人?这也是大错么?

Is it so wrong to continue to talk to him, see him, bake him cookies, buy him presents, burnhim CDs, feed his fish, talk to his parents, call up his friends, break into his voice mail...justkidding.

继续和他聊天，见面，给他做饼干，给他买礼物，买唱片，帮他喂鱼，跟他的父母交谈，召集他的朋友，偷听他的语音信箱...开玩笑罢了。

But seriously, is it so wrong to handle a breakup in a classy, mature, loving manner, whereyou keep in contact and talk and remain friendly and perhaps go to the movies on occasion?

但是认真的说，用有气派的，成熟的，充满爱意的方式来处理分手，跟对方保持联系，聊天，友好相对，也许偶尔还一起去看电影是非常错误的行为。