女人心计：男人最爱的9种女人
你是不是一直在考虑如何让男人爱上你?
I am a professional matchmaker, and here's what I know:
我是一个职业媒人，在此把我所知倾囊相送。
1.Men fall in love with women who seem special, who seem different from the other women with whom they have been out. Make sure to differentiate yourself.
1. 男人爱与众不同的女人。因此，确保自己看上去个性突出。
2.Men fall in love with women whom they are afraid to lose.
2. 男人爱他们担心失去的女人。
3.Men fall in love with women who respect themselves and demand respect from a man. A man can smell, from a mile away, a woman who is lacking in self-respect.
3. 男人爱自重且要求获得男人尊重的女人。男人从一英里外就能嗅到不自重的女人。
4.Men fall in love with women who are happy with themselves. Why would a man love you if you don't love yourself?
4. 男人爱对自己满意的女人。如果你自己都不爱自己，男人为什么要爱你呢?
5.Men fall in love with women who pick "the right time" to have sex. When is the right time? It can be any time, but it should be a time when you know deep down that it's right and that he agrees. When a man likes you, he will not be looking to "lay" you; he will be looking to make love to you.
5. 男人爱会选择“恰当时间”进行性爱的女人。什么时候才是恰当时间呢?任何时候都可能是恰当时间，只要你确实知道它很恰当而且他也同意。如果一个男人喜欢你，他就不会不理你，他很愿意“疼爱”你。
6.Men fall in love with women whom they will be proud to introduce to their friends and family. What does this mean? You can't be a basketcase, a girl who causes a scene or a girl who drinks too much. Why would he want to bring all that into his life?
6. 男人爱其引以自豪的女人，他们会向家人和朋友介绍她们。这是什么意思呢?你不能一无是处，只知道大吵大闹或喝得烂醉。他怎么会把这样的女孩带进自己的生活中呢?
7.Men fall in love with women who doesn't make his life harder. Is it okay to play some games? Sure. Is it okay to give him a hard time sometimes to keep him on his toes? Of course. And is it okay to pick your spots to make a point? Sure. However, there is a difference between giving a guy a hard time and making his life hard.
7. 男人爱不会让他的生活变得更艰难的女人。可不可以偶尔刁难一下他好让他有机会献献殷勤?这当然可以啦。有时候没事找事也是可以的吗?这当然了。但是你要搞清楚故意为难一个人和让他生活变得艰难的区别。
8.Men fall in love with women who are helpful and help them take care of things. A man wants to be with a woman who will be a partner and help him get out of jams, help him think of things he forgot to remember, and help him improve his life. Try to stay ahead of the curve. You know what your guy needs; help him get it.
8. 男人爱可以帮助他们照料事物的女人。一个男人想和一个能与他成为搭档的女人在一起，她能帮助他摆脱困境，帮他想着他想不住的事情，帮他改善生活。尽力想在前、做在前。你知道你的那位需要什么，那就帮他实现吧。
9.Men fall in love with women who continually keep it interesting. No one wants to be with someone who is boring or who is always the same. Keep recreating an interesting you.
9. 男人爱有趣的女人。没有人愿意和一个单调无聊的人生活在一起。你要不断地制造乐趣才行
