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If your child intentionally disturbs you; it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.

如果你的孩子总是故意打扰你，其实是因为你和他缺乏肢体接触，缺乏亲密感。

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If your child is lying; it means you overreacted to the mistakes in past.

如果你的孩子撒谎，其实这说明你曾经对他犯过的错误反应过度。

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If your child had poor self-esteem ,it is because you advise them more then you encourage them.

如果你的孩子缺乏自信心，其实是因为你给他们的建议多过了鼓励。

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If your child does not stand up for themselves,it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.Parents shouldn't do so even in front of siblings,friends or cousins.

如果你的孩子不能坚持自我，其实是因为他们小时候你总是在公共场合教育批评他们。

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If you buy everything for your children still they take things that do not belong to them,it is because you don't let them choose.

如果你什么东西都给孩子买可他们还是会去拿不属于他们的东西，其实是因为你不让他们自己选择想要的东西。

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If your child is a coward,it is because you help them too quickly.Don't remove every obstacle from their path.

如果你的孩子很懦弱，那其实是因为你帮助他们的速度太快了。不要帮你的孩子清扫他们成长道路上的每一个障碍。

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If  your child is jealous,the reason might be you compared them with others consistently.

如果你的孩子嫉妒心很重，那可能是因为你总是拿别的孩子和他们比较。

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If  your child gets angry quickly,the reason might be you have not praised them enough .they only get attention misbehaving.

如果你的孩子很容易生气，那其实是因为你给了他们的赞扬不够，他们只有行为不当的时候才能得到注意。

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If  your child doesn't respect others feelings,the reason might be you always order them-not giving importance to their feelings.

如果你的孩子不会尊重别人的感受，那是因为你总是命令他们，不尊重他们的感受。
 

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If your child is secretive,the reason is you blow things very big.

如果你的孩子总是神神秘秘的，什么都不告诉你，那是因为你总是爱打击他们。

没有哪个孩子天生优秀

孩子的成长是父母的传承

没有哪个父母天生完美

生儿育女本身也是父母的成长

只是，

希望每一位父母珍惜与孩子的相伴

毕竟，

不管什么样的教育

都会在孩子身上留下印记

希望，

每一位父母都可以成为自己的想要的样子