勇敢做自己带来的改变

　　5.你的自信将会展现出来

　　"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement.Nothing can be done without hope and confidence." – Helen Keller

　　"乐观是通往成功的真谛，缺乏希望和自信将一事无成。" ——海伦·凯勒

　　When you love who you are and have no problem with who you are, confidence Is guaranteedto show up. Lack of confidence shows up when you're happy with yourself, your character, andbecause you feel inadequate. But someone who loves who they are, and goes about this dailyhas an unstoppable amount of self confidence. And that's attractive which ever way you slicethe cake!

　　当你爱真正的自己，且觉得自己现在一切都好时，你就有自信了。正是因为你觉得自己不够好，所以才对自身和性格感到不满足，进而缺乏自信。但那些爱自己的人，在日常生活中会有源源不断的自信心。这样一来，不管你用什么方式展现自己，你都会非常有魅力!

　　4.Nobody can hold anything against you

　　4.没有人可以反驳你

　　If you know you're speaking your truth and nothing but your truth, nobody can hold thatagainst you. It's not possible. People will only hold something against you If you give themreason to, or If there's blatant proof. Be yourself, keep it real, speak your truth, then nobodywill be able to hold anything against you. No matter what!

　　如果你说的是真话，那么，没有人能反驳你，也根本不可能想要反驳你。只有当你给他们的理由或证据太过苍白无力时，他们才会跟你辩驳。请做自己，信守真诚，坚持说真话，那么不管发生什么事情，都不会有人跟你唱反调!

　　3.You won't have anything to prove

　　3.你将不需要证明任何东西

　　If you have to prove your honesty to somebody, chances are you've already lost the battle.When you have to prove something It usually means you're not capable of doing it. When youknow who you are and what you stand for, trying to Impress others Is irrelevant. Leave the"proving" to those who feel It's necessary.

　　如果你必须向某人证明你的诚信，那么，你可能已经失去别人对你的信任了;如果你必须要证明一些东西，那么，这也就意味着你难以成事了。当你清楚你是谁以及你代表着什么的时候，你才不会把别人看得那么重要，而"证明"，就留给那些觉得有必要的人吧!

　　2.You'll attract the right friends

　　2.你将会吸引志趣相投的朋友

　　If you go through your whole life feeling like a faker, being a faker, and living a lie, your friendswill reflect that. Like they say, you are what you're around and there's a lot of truth to that. Ifyou want to have honest friends who aren't afraid to keep it real, maybe you need to work onyourself first. Only then will you attract the right friends. If you're already honest as it is, butyour friends are the opposite, maybe you need to meet some new people.

　　如果你觉得自己这辈子都像个骗子一样谎话连篇，那么，你的朋友也会满口胡言。正如人们所说，物以类聚，人以群分，事实也确实如此。如果你想要拥有能够直面真理、内心坦荡的朋友，或许你就得先让自己成为这样的人。只有当你敢于面对现实时，你才能够吸引真正的朋友。如果你是一个能够正视现实的人，而你的朋友们恰恰相反，那么，你也许需要结交新朋友了。

　　1.You'll be happier

　　1.你将会更加开心

　　"If you want to be happy, be." – Leo Tolstoy

　　"如果你想要变开心，那就去做吧。" ——列夫托尔斯泰

　　The most happy years in my life, including today, have been a result of doing the things I wantto do. Being the person I'm meant to be. Doing the things I believe in. And most importantly,being honest with myself. If you're constantly doing things to make others happy, but notyourself, you're bound to stress yourself out. You've got to put your happiness first beforeanything else.

　　从以前到今时今日，我这一生之所以快乐，皆因我做了自己真正想做的事情，成为自己想要成为的那个人，在做自己相信的事情，而最重要的是，我忠于自己。如果你总是去做会让别人开心而不会让自己开心的事情，那么你一定会把自己折磨死。你一定要将自己的快乐摆在首位，其他事情则次之。