2023年01月18日 为什么查宁塔图姆称詹娜德万的分手“可怕”

 
Nearly five years after Channing Tatum and Jenna Dewan first announced their split, the Magic Mike star is looking back at the breakup and why it felt “super scary” at the time.
在查宁·塔图姆 (Channing Tatum) 和珍娜·德万 (Jenna Dewan) 首次宣布分手将近五年后，这位魔力迈克明星回顾了这次分手，以及当时感觉“超级可怕”的原因。
 
Channing Tatum is taking a step up back and reflecting on his former relationship with Jenna Dewan.
查宁·塔图姆 ( Channing Tatum  ) 退后一步 ， 反思他以前与 珍娜·德万 ( Jenna Dewan ) 的关系。
 
"We fought for it for a really long time," the Magic Mike star, 42, told Vanity Fair for its February cover story, "even though we both sort of knew that we had sort of grown apart."
“我们为此奋斗了很长时间，”这位42 岁的Magic Mike明星在 Vanity Fair 二月份的封面故事中说道，“尽管我们都知道我们已经有点疏远了。”
 
After meeting on the set of their 2006 movie Step Up, Tatum and Dewan tied the knot in 2009 and welcomed daughter Everly in 2013. But in 2018, the pair announced their decision to separate and filed for divorce later that year. A judge signed off on the dissolution of their marriage in 2019.
在他们 2006 年的电影《  Step Up》中相遇后，塔图姆和德万于 2009 年喜结连理，并于 2013 年迎来了女儿 埃弗利 。但在 2018 年，两人宣布决定分居，并于当年晚些时候申请离婚。一名法官于 2019 年 签署了解除他们婚姻的协议。
 
"I think we told ourselves a story when we were young, and we just kept telling ourselves that story, no matter how blatantly life was telling us that we were so different," Tatum continued. "But when you're actually parents, you really understand differences between the two of you. Because it is screaming at you all day long. How you parent differently, how you look at the world, how you go through the world."
“我认为我们在年轻时给自己讲了一个故事，我们一直在给自己讲这个故事，不管生活多么公然地告诉我们我们是如此不同，”塔图姆继续说道。“但当你真正为人父母时，你就会真正理解你们两个之间的差异。因为它整天都在对着你尖叫。你如何以不同的方式为人父母，你如何看待这个世界，你如何看待这个世界。”
 
As the Lost City actor noted, navigating this new chapter wasn't easy. "In the beginning, it was super scary and terrifying," he explained of the early days following his and Dewan's separation. "Your life just turns on its axis. This whole plan that you had literally just turns into sand and goes through your fingers and you're just like, 'Oh, s--t. What now?'"
 
However, Tatum seemed to suggest that everything worked out for the best. "It was probably exactly what I needed," he added. "I don't think I would've ever done the work, I think, on myself in the way that I had to do the work on myself to really try to figure out what next. And really, it just started with my daughter. I just dropped everything and just focused on her. And it was truly the best possible thing that I ever could have done. Because in the alone time that I have with just me and her, we've become best friends."
然而，塔图姆似乎暗示一切都朝着最好的方向发展。“这可能正是我所需要的，”他补充道。“我认为我永远不会完成这项工作，我想，以我必须对自己进行工作的方式来真正尝试弄清楚下一步是什么。真的，它只是从我的女儿开始的.我只是放下一切，只专注于她。这真的是我做过的最好的事情。因为在我和她在一起的独处时间里，我们成了最好的朋友。”
 
Dewan previously opened up about her and Tatum's breakup in her 2019 book Gracefully You: Finding Beauty and Balance in the Everyday.
德万之前在她 2019 年出版的书《优雅的你：在日常生活中寻找美与平衡》中公开了她和塔图姆的分手。
 
"In the beginning of my separation, it felt as though I were in a dark closet, desperately trying to find the light or the way out," the former World of Dance host, 42, wrote. "I was in a state of shock. One week I'd be doing really well and the next I was slammed with a whole new slew of emotions. The rumor mill was churning out story after story. There were many times I hid under the covers, wondering what was next."
这位 42 岁的前舞蹈世界 主持人写道：“在我分离之初，我感觉就像在一个黑暗的壁橱里，拼命地试图找到光明或出路 。” “我当时处于一种震惊的状态。一个星期我会做得很好，而下一个星期我就会被一系列全新的情绪冲击。谣言工厂一个接一个地制造故事。有很多次我躲在封面，想知道接下来会发生什么。”
 
She continued, "The pain hit me like a tumbling avalanche. I was completely overcome with fear and sadness. It took many moments of sitting alone with my grief to force me into surrendering to my roller coaster of a situation."
她继续说道，“疼痛像翻滚的雪崩一样袭击了我。我完全被恐惧和悲伤所征服。我花了很多时间独自坐在悲伤中，迫使我向过山车投降。”
 
However, both she and Tatum have found love again. Dewan is engaged to Steve Kazee, with whom she shares son 2-year-old son Callum. As for Tatum, he and Jessie J split in 2020 after about two years of dating, and he's now in a relationship with Zoë Kravitz.
然而，她和塔图姆都再次找到了爱情。Dewan与 Steve Kazee 订婚，她与 Steve Kazee 有一个 2 岁的儿子 Callum。至于塔图姆，他和 Jessie J在约会 了大约两年后于 2020 年分手，现在他与 Zoë Kravitz处于恋爱关系中。
 
But don't expect wedding bells to be ringing any time soon. As the 21 Jump Street alum told Vanity Fair, "I don't know if I'm ever going to get married again."
但是不要指望结婚的钟声很快就会响起。正如 21 Jump Street 校友告诉 Vanity Fair的那样，“我不知道我是否还会再结婚。”