如何辨别他是不是花花公子

 
 

He'll shamelessly flirt with other women in front of you.
在你面前毫不避讳地跟别的女人调情

Players are often always thinking about where the next one is coming from. One of the symptoms of this is that he might blatantly flirt with other women right under your nose.

I'm not saying you have to be paranoid about every girl he talks to, but watch out for him exchanging lots of numbers, or making inappropriate physical contact with every girl who comes over.

He openly talks about other women in your presence.
当着你的面谈论其他女人

Some players will be completely untactful about showing (or evenoutright telling you!) about their attraction for other women. Any guy who talks about other women being "hot" in your presence is either trying to make you jealous, or it's a clear indication that he's not particularly worried about your feelings (another sign of a player).

He's uncurious about you as a person.
他并不在乎你的为人

Players aren't usually bothered about you past superficial characteristics. Usually a "player" type will want you because he's sexually attracted but he doesn't really want to ask questions that will help him know you better as a person.

He won't go out of his way to plan anything special.
他不会为你准备任何特别的惊喜，因为嫌麻烦

Players are usually seeing a few women at one time, which often means they can't be bothered to devote a lot of energy to any one of them. A player will often do what's convenient for him. It's unlikely he's going to surprise you with tickets to that play you've been dying to see, or make any romantic gestures.

He doesn't want to get involved in your life.
他不想融入你的圈子

Players want casual relationships. That means they get panic at the idea of meeting parents, or getting involved with your friends,or any activity which makes him feel like he's in a couple. 

Guys who want something serious with you will be interested in becoming a bigger part of your life. On the other hand, players are always planning their exit. They never want too much emotional attachment, because they're scared of feeling guilty when they move on to someone else.

Watch out for these sure signs and you'll have no problems spotting the players early on!

So by now you should understand exactly what type of guys are players and who you need to avoid if you want a chance at developing some kind of relationship. Players don't care about your feelings, they just care for themselves, so it's really not worthy our time to try and change them - because they won't change!