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名人演讲:追随自己的心声，你们一定会成功[奥普拉]

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Follow Your Gut and You Will Be a Huge Success 追随自己的心声，你们一定会成功

——Oprah Winfrey 奥普拉_温弗瑞

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[00:01.57]Oh, yes,
[00:02.68]I'm going to have everyone
[00:03.48]call me Doctor now.
[00:05.71]Thank you,
[00:06.63]President Brodhead.
[00:08.23]Ladies and gentlemen
[00:09.97]and graduates,
[00:11.31]and especially to all the mothers here
[00:13.81]will all the mothers stand,
[00:15.29]so we can say
[00:16.58]Happy Mother's Day?
[00:19.88]Happy Mother's Day to you.
[00:27.23]What a great day to celebrate mothers.
[00:34.90]You love me still,
[00:35.52]even though I'm a doctor now?
[00:39.41]Well, I wanted to just say,
[00:40.80]first of all,
[00:41.44]thank you for the doctorate degree,
[00:43.97]and I'm so happy to be here,
[00:45.37]and I'm here because
[00:46.26]someone I love
[00:48.78]is graduating today,
[00:50.52]my godson,
[00:51.53]William Bumpus,
[00:57.81]the son of Will Bumpus
[01:00.84]and my best friend, Gayle.
[01:02.88]You know,
[01:03.32]William never wants people
[01:04.78]to know that he knows me,
[01:07.85]and his sister, Kirby,
[01:09.68]never did either.
[01:11.27]I'm like the crazy aunt
[01:12.12]they keep in the attic,
[01:14.83]and they let me out
[01:15.45]to do commencements,
[01:19.51]so here I am.
[01:21.66]I just want to say
[01:22.78]I knew William before he was born.
[01:26.34]I saw the sonogram,
[01:29.48]and he was smiling even then.
[01:32.09]So those of you who know him
[01:33.17]know he has such a gorgeous smile.
[01:35.48]I know you all have memories
[01:36.84]of graduates flooding through
[01:38.86]your minds today as we celebrate
[01:40.80]this milestone graduation,
[01:43.31]Class of 2009.
[01:44.80]One of my fondest
[01:46.12]memories of William,
[01:47.57]one time
[01:48.80]when he was a little boy,
[01:50.04]he was at my house,
[01:51.01]and I used to collect these
[01:53.57]antique museum quality Shaker boxes,
[01:59.13]and I walked into the room
[02:00.40]and William has my one of
[02:02.33]a kind Shaker boxes
[02:04.56]and he's stacking them up like
[02:06.08]Bric A Blocs and knocking them down
[02:09.66]and going, "Vroom."
[02:12.55]And I yelled, just
[02:14.14]I just started
[02:15.07]I said, "No, William, stop!"
[02:19.35]I think I stunned the boy,
[02:20.95]because he wasn't used to
[02:22.43]anybody yelling at him,
[02:23.81]and he stopped,
[02:24.82]he put the boxes back on the shelf
[02:26.77]and he found where he found them
[02:29.27]and he did not say a word to me.
[02:31.03]He didn't even cry.
[02:33.06]And a little later on,
[02:33.87]he goes up to his mom
[02:35.16]and he says,
[02:36.55]Mom, Auntie O is mean.
[02:40.87]Can we go home
[02:43.56]Well, William,
[02:44.39]Auntie O has some news for you.
[02:46.77]You're getting those scratchedup boxes
[02:48.46]for your graduation gift.
[02:52.46]You can knock them down
[02:53.14]all you want.
[02:53.91]But seriously,
[02:56.61]I don't know a better young man
[02:59.41]in the world than William Bumpus,
[03:02.04]and thank you, Duke,
[03:03.36]for making him
[03:04.16]an even greater young man.
[03:07.50]And I have to say
[03:08.60]that he is so kind
[03:09.57]and so generous of spirit.
[03:11.78]William, you're the son I wish I'd had,
[03:14.45]and so I'm thrilled to be here for you.
[03:15.98]Love you, Willzer.
[03:17.70]I've been doing my show now
[03:18.84]for almost 25 years.
[03:20.55]Feels like 125,
[03:22.18]but almost 25 years.
[03:23.43]And my greatest lessons
[03:26.09]have come from my work;
[03:28.28]talking to murderers,
[03:31.59]doing makeovers,
[03:33.87]learning about flesh-eating diseases,
[03:35.90]have all been great growing tools for me,
[03:39.40]because I look at life every day
[03:41.05]from the experience
[03:42.09]of what can I grow from this.
[03:46.85]Actually, the show is
[03:48.26]why I never needed therapy.
[03:50.80]Well, I might have needed therapy,
[03:52.40]but I never went to therapy,
[03:54.31]because I have learned so many lessons
[03:57.64]from our show
[03:59.45]and the people I've met.
[04:00.88]And the miracle for me
[04:02.26]is that almost 25 years later,
[04:04.75]I get to go to work every day
[04:06.62]and I am still learning.
[04:08.20]I just finished taping a show this week
[04:11.11]with so many powerful lessons
[04:13.79]that I wanted to weep,
[04:14.92]but I want to share some of
[04:16.20]those lessons with you today.
[04:17.69]As a matter of fact,
[04:18.51]there were so many lessons
[04:19.43]in the show that I taped
[04:20.55]just last week,
[04:21.24]that's going to air next week,
[04:22.70]you'll see it,
[04:23.48]I did weep.
[04:24.58]It was about some tough guys
[04:27.19]in prison for murder,
[04:28.89]for manslaughter,
[04:30.59]armed robbery,
[04:31.83]guys full of anger and violence.
[04:34.89]And they're involved in this program
[04:39.99]where dogs, little puppies,
[04:42.23]are taken from shelters
[04:45.02]and the eight-week-old puppies
[04:46.53]are given to the prisoners,
[04:48.89]eight-week-old puppies
[04:49.84]that would have otherwise been euthanized.
[04:52.44]The puppies live right
[04:53.73]in the prison cells
[04:56.78]with the prisoners 24 hours a day.
[04:59.54]And I forgot to ask them
[05:00.81]how they housebreak them,
[05:03.51]because it's not like you can say,
[05:04.90]I need to take the dog out.
[05:07.07]But the prisoners train these puppies
[05:10.88]to then be service dogs
[05:12.49]to help our soldiers in Iraq
[05:14.38]who come back
[05:15.22]with traumatic brain injuries
[05:16.69]and post-traumatic stress,
[05:18.80]and then send them
[05:20.56]to the veterans from Iraq.
[05:23.79]Some of these inmates
[05:25.68]had never known love or responsibility.
[05:30.25]They'd never taken care of anybody,
[05:32.94]nor knew what it felt like
[05:33.78]to have somebody love you back
[05:36.03]when you take care of them.
[05:37.59]But one of the things
[05:38.24]they teach the dogs
[05:39.92]is how to kiss the soldier's face.
[05:42.88]A lot of the soldiers come back
[05:44.04]with post-traumatic stress
[05:45.83]and have terrible experiences,
[05:48.32]and if the soldier is starting to go
[05:50.44]to a bad place in his mind,
[05:53.36]the dogs lick and kiss the soldier's face
[05:56.66]to bring him back to reality.
[05:59.26]So this means that the prisoners themselves
[06:01.34]also had to get the kisses
[06:02.62]from the puppies they were training.
[06:05.76]It's clear the kisses
[06:06.75]were also bringing the prisoners
[06:08.18]back from a hard, cold place,
[06:11.25]and to see these CRIminals,
[06:13.56]who had never, many of them,
[06:15.82]experienced love themselves,
[06:18.45]cry on camera,
[06:20.53]in front of each other,
[06:21.45]cry in redemption,
[06:22.88]their voices quivering as they talk about
[06:25.59]the chance to do something good,
[06:28.37]to do something kind and unselfish,
[06:30.60]by helping the wounded soldiers
[06:32.57]in Iraq and teaching the dogs,
[06:35.26]was so moving.
[06:36.71]And when the severely injured soldier
[06:39.09]what we did was we went
[06:40.47]and found one of the soldiers
[06:41.67]who had received a dog
[06:43.01]and brought him back
[06:44.19]to the prison so that
[06:45.34]he could meet the prisoner who
[06:46.88]who trained the dog.
[06:49.28]And when they met,
[06:50.58]I tell you,
[06:52.47]the audience and I were
[06:53.18]a puddle of tears.
[06:55.59]And what I learned from that
[06:56.63]I want to share with you, graduates.
[06:58.73]If you can find a way
[07:00.97]to give back just
[07:02.14]as these felons
[07:03.94]are giving from behind bars,
[07:06.46]you will be a huge success,
[07:09.47]because for sure one of the things
[07:11.32]I've learned is that
[07:12.79]the best way to enhance your own life
[07:16.06]is to contribute to somebody else's.
[07:19.09]Now, last year we did a story
[07:20.51]on a woman named Monica George,
[07:22.95]and people often ask,
[07:24.21]you know, "Who's your favorite guest,
[07:25.42]who's your favorite guest,"
[07:25.94]and they always expect me
[07:27.34]to name some movie star.
[07:30.39]Well, if it's a movie star,
[07:31.37]it would be Hugh Jackman.
[07:36.33]He's one of my favorite guests,
[07:39.83]and you can imagine why.
[07:43.71]But my favorite guests are,
[07:47.15]for the most part,
[07:48.26]not celebrities and not people
[07:50.42]who've done famous or infamous things.
[07:53.96]My most favorite guests
[07:55.92]are ordinary people
[07:57.92]who've accomplished extraordinary triumphs
[08:01.00]in their life,
[08:01.76]and Monica George is
[08:02.71]one of those people
[08:03.34]I will never forget.
[08:04.82]She and her husband,
[08:05.69]Tony, were overjoyed at the C-section birth
[08:09.27]of a healthy baby girl
[08:10.87]that they named Sophie
[08:12.44]and Sophie was their second daughter.
[08:14.36]This was just last year.
[08:15.38]But within hours,
[08:16.30]and while she was still in the hospital,
[08:18.35]Monica developed a fever
[08:21.49]and pain caused by a fast-moving,
[08:24.11]flesh-eating bacteria.
[08:26.61]She was dying,
[08:28.00]so they took some organs
[08:29.72]to save her,
[08:31.34]but the bacteria had spread,
[08:33.28]so the doctors came in
[08:34.72]and said to her,
[08:35.73]We think, as a matter of fact,
[08:38.93]we know we're going to
[08:39.82]have to amputate.
[08:41.37]We're going to
[08:42.37]have to take both your arms
[08:43.29]and both your legs.
[08:45.57]And this woman said,
[08:47.66]Get on with it.
[08:49.41]I want you to do it
[08:50.32]and do it as fast as you can,
[08:51.93]because I have to get home
[08:53.36]to take care of my girls.
[08:55.39]So imagine going into the hospital
[08:57.28]to have a baby,
[08:59.21]you have the healthy baby
[09:00.41]and you expect to be coming home
[09:02.60]with this tiny little pink bundle of joy,
[09:05.39]with pink little arms and legs,
[09:06.82]and instead you go home
[09:08.68]without your arms and legs.
[09:11.84]The arms that were going to hold
[09:13.30]this child and legs that
[09:14.61]were going to walk with her in the park.
[09:16.98]Monica had 37 operations
[09:19.93]in two months,
[09:22.01]but she's now home with her girls,
[09:24.08]home without a trace of self-pity,
[09:26.48]home with a smile on her face
[09:27.99]and a peace in her heart.
[09:29.78]And when I talked to her,
[09:30.63]she said, sure,
[09:32.86]sometimes it hurts
[09:33.73]that she's not able to
[09:34.99]paint Sophie's nails and toenails
[09:37.69]and do the things
[09:38.56]that mothers and daughters do,
[09:40.91]but she also said,
[09:42.05]What good are you to your children
[09:44.19]if you're miserable?
[09:46.67]There's so many lessons in this,
[09:48.05]because at some point,
[09:50.01]something in life
[09:52.02]is going to eat you inside.
[09:55.47]It could be anger;
[09:56.29]it could be guilt;
[09:57.23]it could be past hurts
[09:59.64]or some other strain of soul eating bacteria.
[10:04.07]But graduates,
[10:05.02]I want you to know
[10:06.84]that if you can summon the courage
[10:08.47]of Monica George in the face
[10:10.03]of your own life's hardships,
[10:12.14]and you will have them,
[10:13.28]and if you can remember
[10:14.60]what good are you to anyone
[10:17.80]if you're miserable,
[10:19.73]I know for sure you'll
[10:20.99]be a huge success,
[10:23.05]because you are responsible
[10:25.75]for your happiness
[10:27.29]and you are responsible
[10:29.03]for the energy
[10:30.12]you bring to everything.
[10:32.71]One of my other favorite guests
[10:33.94]was a woman named Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor,
[10:36.35]who's a brain scientist,
[10:38.15]who had a stroke
[10:39.38]in the left hemisphere
[10:40.51]of her brain.
[10:41.43]She wrote a book
[10:41.91]called My Stroke of Insight.
[10:44.28]And so only the right hemisphere
[10:45.85]was working,
[10:47.14]and when she was in the hospital
[10:48.37]as a patient,
[10:50.48]she said she could sense
[10:53.19]through her right brain
[10:55.96]when a nurse would come into the room
[10:58.23]and meant her well,
[10:59.69]or when the nurse
[11:00.39]was thinking about
[11:01.50]what time she was going
[11:02.45]to be off that day.
[11:04.59]She could sense the energy
[11:06.78]that was brought into the room.
[11:08.51]And after a while,
[11:09.54]she put up a sign in the room
[11:10.97]that said to everyone
[11:12.98]who came in the room,
[11:14.51]you are responsible for the energy
[11:17.35]that you bring.
[11:19.07]I love that moment,
[11:20.08]because we are responsible
[11:21.67]for the energy
[11:22.76]that we bring to everything
[11:25.01]we do in life.
[11:28.12]One thing that gets a huge response
[11:29.54]on the show is makeover.
[11:30.80]You know, we did a makeover
[11:31.89]on Coretta Scott King,
[11:33.24]the late Coretta Scott King,
[11:36.90]wife of Dr. Martin Luther King,
[11:38.12]and this was like going
[11:39.48]to Mount Rushmore
[11:40.26]and giving George Washington
[11:41.16]a new do,
[11:43.09]because she hadn't changed
[11:43.79]her do since 1954.
[11:46.35]But we've done a lot of makeovers.
[11:48.69]One woman hadn't changed
[11:50.94]her hair in 37 years.
[11:52.48]She had this big old hair
[11:53.40]thing going on.
[11:54.02]Another young woman
[11:55.03]worked in a chicken house,
[11:56.21]and after we got all the feathers off,
[11:57.44]she was stunning.
[11:59.64]Another woman had worn her hair
[12:00.63]in a bun for 25 years
[12:01.84]and put on makeup
[12:02.81]to go to bed at night,
[12:03.31]because she said
[12:04.43]if she died in her sleep,
[12:05.03]she wanted to be ready.
[12:10.10]People love makeovers,
[12:11.33]because the physical results
[12:12.56]are always so astonishing.
[12:14.71]But I like doing them
[12:16.28]because of the possibility of transforming
[12:19.93]more than the way people look.
[12:21.91]You want to change the way
[12:23.48]people feel about themselves.
[12:25.44]One man,
[12:26.20]a guy we'd just seen
[12:26.98]walking down the street,
[12:27.94]with a beard that
[12:28.60]was almost to the ground,
[12:30.14]it looked like he was
[12:31.40]hiding behind all of that beard.
[12:33.15]And after we got rid of all
[12:34.75]that hair and he could actually
[12:36.42]see himself, he said,
[12:37.71]"I feel alive again."
[12:39.39]The makeover allowed
[12:40.20]him to see himself in a
[12:41.51]way that he'd forgotten was there.
[12:43.73]You know, we all need makeovers
[12:45.11]from time to time in our lives,
[12:47.39]and graduates, I know this,
[12:49.31]that if you can see the possibility
[12:51.24]of changing your life,
[12:52.75]of seeing what you can become
[12:54.77]and not just what you are,
[12:56.66]you will be a huge success.
[12:59.88]One of my life heroes is Nelson Mandela,
[13:02.19]and I had the great honor
[13:04.11]of spending some time
[13:05.44]with Nelson Mandela,
[13:06.87]10 days and 29 meals at his house,
[13:09.50]and I was so worried about what
[13:10.73]I was going to talk about or
[13:12.61]what we would say
[13:13.72]at the dinner table.
[13:14.76]And Stedman said to me,
[13:16.19]"Why don't you try listening?"
[13:20.83]Thank you, Stedman.
[13:22.79]That worked.
[13:24.81]So I had the benefit of sitting
[13:26.46]at his table for 29 meals
[13:28.66]and listened a lot, listened
[13:30.28]to the stories of how
[13:31.57]he spent 27 years in
[13:32.96]a South African prison,
[13:35.09]and talked to him about
[13:36.57]how he was able to
[13:38.29]come out of that with
[13:39.57]a sense of forgiveness,
[13:41.05]to bind the wounds
[13:42.27]of South Africa
[13:43.47]and saving it from a mean
[13:45.54]and violent civil war.
[13:48.62]So I asked him to come
[13:50.58]on our show,
[13:52.65]and I was
[13:53.35]although I'd sat at his table
[13:55.29]and was very comfortable
[13:56.61]in his presence,
[13:58.06]I was really nervous
[13:59.60]having him come on the show,
[14:00.81]and I rarely, rarely, rarely
[14:02.46]get nervous.
[14:03.94]And for me, his
[14:06.23]warmth just filled our studio
[14:07.87]with a glow, and one of the
[14:09.59]things I will always remember
[14:11.13]him saying is how terrible
[14:12.95]it was to spend the best years
[14:14.88]of his life in that prison,
[14:16.55]but he said if he'd not been
[14:18.19]in prison, he would have
[14:19.11]not been able to achieve
[14:20.74]the most difficult task in his life,
[14:23.10]and that was to begin the change
[14:25.64]of himself.
[14:28.84]But this is so
[14:30.38]this tells the story of
[14:31.66]who he really is.
[14:32.28]He arrives at the studio
[14:34.66]and everybody's so excited
[14:35.94]and nervous and it's Nelson Mandela,
[14:37.41]and Nelson Mandela
[14:39.48]walks into the green room
[14:40.48]and says to the producer,
[14:42.36]"And what is the show about?"
[14:49.15]"Uh, you. The show's about you, sir."
[14:56.82]Nelson Mandela was so humble
[14:59.47]that being on the show for
[15:00.56]a whole hour was not something
[15:01.71]he expected. "
[15:03.20]How can such a great man be so humble,"
[15:05.63] I thought.
[15:06.59]Graduates, if you can proceed
[15:09.12]through life with just a portion
[15:10.99]of Nelson Mandela's humility,
[15:13.67]you will be a huge success.
[15:17.90]When I was eight years old,
[15:20.01]I was at church one day
[15:23.25]and a stranger came to me
[15:26.69]and a man named John J. Hooker
[15:29.97]was running for governor at the time,
[15:31.69] and he had come to our church to
[15:33.64] campaign. And afterwards,
[15:35.05]outside as we were leaving
[15:37.45]the church, his wife, who was
[15:39.30]then a stranger, her name
[15:40.45]was Tish Hooker, a beautiful
[15:42.35]woman with blonde hair,
[15:44.36]classic cheekbones, flawless
[15:45.85]skin, saw me standing there.
[15:48.77]And you have to understand
[15:51.12]at the time I was a little black
[15:56.63]girl, but we didn't call ourselves
[15:58.00]black then. Actually, back then
[15:59.87]we were colored and Negro,
[16:02.07]but whatever. I was a little girl
[16:04.13]who didn't think much of herself,
[16:08.00]but Tish Hooker walked right up
[16:10.19]to me, as if she knew I needed
[16:14.02]to hear what she had to say.
[16:17.44]And she said it only as a
[16:19.01]Southern woman can. She said,
[16:22.25]"You know, you're just as pretty
[16:23.83]as a speckled pup." Now,
[16:29.11]I didn't know what a speckled
[16:30.97]pup was, but she then said,
[16:34.53]"And you have the most beautiful
[16:37.52]bee-stung lips."
[16:40.63]Well, I knew I had big lips.
[16:43.37]I didn't know what bee-stung lips
[16:44.74]were. But she said it with such
[16:46.91]warmth and such kindness that
[16:49.65]I remember going home from
[16:51.11]church and staring at myself in
[16:54.40]the mirror, because Tish Hooker
[16:56.37]had said that I was pretty,
[16:59.45]and she was the first person
[17:00.54]that ever looked at me
[17:03.79]and had the courage
[17:06.31]to speak the words, "You're pretty."
[17:09.55] I'd never felt pretty.
[17:11.60]I knew I was smart,
[17:13.35]but this stranger, this woman
[17:14.30]who just came out of nowhere
[17:17.93]it seemed, was the first person
[17:19.78]to ever say it to me. And it made
[17:21.91]me see myself differently from
[17:24.52]that day forward, Tish Hooker saying,
[17:27.49]"You have such beautiful bee-stung lips,"
[17:33.34]and I've remembered that my
[17:35.67]whole life. You never know
[17:37.54]what kindness you offer today
[17:41.23]to someone, how that might live
[17:44.82]with them forever. So, graduates,
[17:48.20] if you can be generous enough
[17:49.77]to say kind, affirming words to
[17:52.38]those who may long to hear them,
[17:55.83]you will be a huge success.
[17:58.93]And finally, let me just tell you
[18:00.79]a story about my success.
[18:02.30]I had a charity sale, because
[18:04.04]I have clothes in every size,
[18:06.39]8, 10, 12, 14, elastic.
[18:14.30]Sometimes it gets crowded
[18:16.38]in my closet.
[18:19.92]So I had a charity sale awhile back
[18:22.93]to get rid of all that stuff,
[18:24.30]and a woman named Joanie Jacks
[18:26.16]didn't have much money,
[18:28.09]because she didn't have a job
[18:29.09]at the time, and the least expensive thing
[18:32.29]she could find was a pair
[18:33.85]of black shoes.
[18:35.96]Now, she wore a size seven
[18:37.53]and I'm a 10? on a good day,
[18:42.61]11 with humidity.
[18:46.19]So she bought a pair of
[18:47.50]my shoes and kept them in her bedroom,
[18:49.82]and she said that when she got depressed,
[18:52.71]when things weren't going well,
[18:55.82]she would take out the shoes
[18:58.45]and she would stand in my shoes.
[19:02.44]And she said she wanted
[19:03.19]to stand in the shoes until
[19:04.56]she'd be able to stand on her own,
[19:07.55]and she used the shoes as a sense
[19:09.63]of inspiration to herself.
[19:12.68]At age 50, she went back to
[19:14.13]college and got herself a degree,
[19:18.18]and today she's standing
[19:19.74]in her own shoes.
[19:22.62]That is what makes me feel successful.
[19:30.16]Of all the wonderful things
[19:32.12]that have happened,
[19:33.09]including getting a doctorate,
[19:35.14]an honorary doctorate from Duke,
[19:37.39]what reallymakes me feel successful
[19:39.29]is being able to use my life
[19:41.12]in service to someone else's.
[19:44.49]And I will have to say,
[19:45.42]it is a wonderful thing to
[19:47.29]have a beautiful home, or homes,
[19:52.76]a wonderful thing to have
[19:53.48]a beautiful home which just
[19:55.22]escaped the fire in Santa Barbara.
[19:58.02]And it is really fantastic
[19:59.73]to have your own jet,
[20:00.97]and anybody who says it isn't
[20:02.28]is lying to you.
[20:06.07]That jet thing is really good.
[20:10.29]But you really haven't completed
[20:13.60]the circle of success unless
[20:16.15]you can help somebody
[20:17.48]else move forward.
[20:19.09]That's the truth.
[20:20.41]Move to higher ground.
[20:21.60]That's the real goal.
[20:23.77]How do you get someone
[20:24.89]else to move to higher ground.
[20:28.38]So I spend my life doing that,
[20:29.31]thinking about how can I help
[20:32.17]somebody else move to higher ground.
[20:34.29]How can I help somebody else
[20:35.50]get to a stronger and better place,
[20:38.08]because that is success.
[20:39.98]That's it. That's why we're all alive,
[20:41.79]to use ourselves, our lives,
[20:44.91]for something bigger than ourselves.
[20:48.53]So, graduates, in closing,
[20:51.41]each of us has to stand in our own shoes,
[20:55.47]and the real question is how
[20:58.16]will you stand in your own?
[21:00.84]Will you stand in them with humility
[21:03.17]and compassion
[21:04.77]and integrity and courage?
[21:07.15]Well, I'm here to tell you,
[21:08.60]every day and every experience
[21:11.18]of your life will give you a chance
[21:12.91]to make that choice.
[21:14.67]It still happens to me, every day,
[21:16.09]all the time. Most recently,
[21:19.21]I was faced with a big decision
[21:22.94]as to whether or not
[21:24.32]we had done this wonderful show,
[21:27.02]informative show,
[21:29.38]on Columbine,
[21:32.13]with an author of the book
[21:33.89]who had written this really
[21:35.66]fascinating, intriguing book
[21:37.65]on Columbine. And we finished taping
[21:39.78] the show, and I went upstairs
[21:42.55]and I said to the producers,
[21:46.01]who were all excited because
[21:47.53]he was doing his first interview
[21:48.90]with us, and they get really excited,
[21:50.70]"It's exclusive and it's wonderful,
[21:52.20]it's great." And I said, "Yes,
[21:54.06]but something about that bothered me.
[21:56.99]I'm not quite sure what it was,
[21:58.81]but something didn't feel right."
[22:01.06]I said, "But I have to
[22:02.40]I have to take a look at it,
[22:04.58]I have to take some time to
[22:06.19]look at it, because in the moment,
[22:08.45]I really can't tell. I just have
[22:09.40]a feeling that something's
[22:11.97]off with that show." So I said,
[22:14.76]"I want to take a chance to review the tape,"
[22:17.75]and as my life wouldhave it,
[22:19.24]I didn't get a chance to review the tape.
[22:21.05]This was on a Thursday.
[22:22.04]The show was going to air on a Monday.
[22:23.86]Saturday, I'm sitting in Santa Barbara alone,
[22:27.53]quiet for a moment, and it occurred
[22:30.21]to me what's wrong with that show.
[22:33.51]There's something wrong with the
[22:34.70]energy that I brought to that show.
[22:39.26]And I called the producer and I said,
[22:41.13]"I know what's wrong with the show.
[22:43.46]I think the show focuses too much
[22:45.92]attention on the killers and
[22:48.28]it presents darkness,
[22:51.18]the energy of darkness,
[22:53.10]in a way that I really don't want
[22:55.16]to be responsible for."
[22:57.77]And the producer said,
[22:58.95]"But the promos have gone out.
[23:01.81]It's already airing all over the country.
[23:06.79]We've told all the stations
[23:07.79]that it's airing and they have
[23:09.22]it in their lineup." And I said,
[23:11.08]"I am responsible for the energy
[23:16.83]that goes out over the air,
[23:18.55]so we're going to have to pull it,
[23:20.48]regardless of what we've told the stations,
[23:23.27]and they'll have to understand."
[23:25.20]So we pulled the show, because
[23:27.57]I felt that at the end of the day,
[23:32.05]if one person watching that show
[23:35.47]saw or heard something that
[23:40.38]made them feel inspired to go out
[23:41.88]and bring more darkness into the world,
[23:42.56]I didn't want that on me.
[23:44.94]So it still happens every single day, decisions
[23:49.13]decisions come my way that require me
[23:59.33] to decide who am I really,
[24:05.13]what am I really doing this for?
[24:07.74]Decisions that allow me to make
[24:10.73] a decision as to whether or not
[24:12.47]I will do the right thing or will
[24:14.15]I do the popular thing.
[24:17.26]So for every experience in life,
[24:20.43]you get a chance to know
[24:23.17]whether or not right or whether
[24:26.84]or not you'll follow the opinions
[24:28.52]of everyone else. For me, it's all about
[24:31.96]following your gut.
[24:33.67]I am who I am because I trust my
[24:35.48]gut more than anyone else's opinion,
[24:39.04]and that is my best advice to you.
[24:42.33]You know what is right,
[24:45.94]and when everyone around you
[24:48.12]is telling you what you should do,
[24:50.69]what you shouldn't do, and when you
[24:52.49]have to ask more than anybody
[24:55.17]other than yourself,
[24:56.16]you have to ask anyone
[24:57.22]other than yourself,
[24:58.34]it is your instinct,
[25:02.82]your higher self's way of saying,
[25:04.87]Get still until you do know the answer,
[25:08.79]because your gut will never lead you wrong.
[25:12.71]Trust your gut to help you stand proudly
[25:17.07] in your own shoes,
[25:18.56]as you help others stand in theirs,
[25:21.81]and I know you will be a huge success.
[25:26.16]You have my warmest best wishes
[25:28.11]and my most heartfelt congratulations.

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