人生不设限·心存盼望而活
You may be skeptical that anything is possible by hanging on to hope. Or perhaps you have been brought down so low that finding the strength to crawl out of your despair seems impossible. There was a time when I felt exactly that way. I was absolutely convinced that my life would never be of value and that I would only be a burden to those I loved.
我出生时，父母非常沮丧。这不能怪他们，他们可没准备好会有这样一个缺手缺脚的小孩。当孩子来到这个世界时，每个父母都会设想孩子的未来，但我父母却很难推断我将来到底会过什么样的日子;渐渐长大之后，我也有了这样的困惑。
My parents were not prepared for a child without limbs when I was born, and as a result they were despondent. Who could blame them? Every mother and father tries to envision the future for the children they bring into the world. My parents had diffi culty projecting what sort of future I would have, and as I grew older, so did I.
我们都曾经觉得自己的人生即将在残酷的现实中毁灭，就好像一辆高速行驶的汽车撞上墙壁。你个人的遭遇也许很独特，但这种绝望的情境人皆有之。常有青少年写E-mail告诉我，虐待和忽视的问题撕裂了他们的家庭;成年人则谈到药物、酒精或色情使他们的人生瘫痪了。有一些日子，我会觉得跟我谈话的人里头好像有一半得了癌症，或是面临其他危及生命的疾病。
We all have at times seen our vision for our lives crash into a cruel reality like a speeding car into a brick wall. The particulars of your experience may be unique, but situations of despair are all too human. Teens often e-mail me stories of abuse and neglect ripping apart their families. Adults share stories in which drugs or alcohol or pornography have left them crippled. Some days it seems like half the people I talk to are dealing with cancer or some other life-threatening medical condition.
在这样的情境中，要如何持守盼望?请相信上帝，并记住你来到这里是有理由的，然后为了实现那个目标奉献出自己。无论你碰到的挑战是什么，你都深受祝福，得以找到出路。只要想想我父母和他们曾经面对的绝望，你就能理解了。
How do you stay hopeful in such situations? You trust in God, remember that you are here for a reason, and dedicate yourself to fulfilling that purpose. Whatever challenge you are facing, you are blessed in ways that will help you find a way through it. Just think of my parents and of the hopelessness that they once faced.
