怎样改掉犹豫不决的臭毛病

        1. Test them against your values.

　　So many times we have to make decisions without a framework and no way to judge between two choices. When faced with a tricky decision it’s often a good idea to line up your choices and ask “Which one of these most honours the things that mean the most to me?”

　　The decision that’s most in line with the things that mean the most to you – your core values – will be the best decision for you. That might not be the simplest or most practical, but because it fits with who you are and what’s most important to you it will always be the best decision for you.

　　1.用自己的价值观来评定

　　很多次我们在两个选择之间徘徊，没有一个固定的构架或判断的方法来拿定主意。当我们面临一个需要机警判断的决定时，通常我们会有一个好主意那就是把所有的选择按重要与否排成一条线，然后问一下自己“这些选择中哪一个让我觉得最值？”你所做的决定是这条选择链里对你来说最重要的----你的核心价值观------将会是你最好的选择。这也许不是最简单的或者最现实的，但确实最适合你的。对你来说最重要的就是最好的选择。