20多岁时你要经历的那些改变
2.Taking dates and relationships more seriously because you are finally in that phase of your life where you could actually envision yourself getting married to someone down the line, whereas you were always able to brush it off with something along the lines of "It's not like I'm going to get married, I'm way too young for that."开始认真对待恋爱关系。人生的这个阶段，你开始实际考虑自己会跟某人结婚过一辈子，但潜意识里你又会嘀咕：“我才不会就这样结婚，我还年轻着呢!”
3. Becoming acutely aware of what it is that you're doing for work and how that relates to the studies and skills you paid all that money to acquire. 强烈意识到工作的意义以及你为了学习和技能所付诸的投资。
4. Forcing yourself to start enjoying all of the foods you had once written off completely as "gross" because you know that they're good for you, and directly related to how good you're going to feel throughout the day. Yes, spinach and broiled fish, I'm talking to you。慢慢要求自己去吃那些曾经还被自己鄙弃的“难吃”食物，比如菠菜和烤鱼，因为你明白这些食物对身体有好处，甚至能直接影响你一天的精力。
5. Becoming markedly less insecure about all of the things which used to torture you in adolescence, such as whether you are wearing the coolest brand of jeans. 对那些曾让青春期的你倍感烦恼的事情明显少了很多介意，
6. Learning to temper the existential crises you go through when you are referred to as "sir" or "ma'am" by kids who aren't even that young。当被小孩叫成“叔叔”或“阿姨”时，你会感到恼火不已。
7. Talking to your parents and noticing that you are, in many ways, addressing each other as equals in a way that never used to happen. (That is, unless you are asking them for money or some other favor, in which case you are about five years old again。)当你跟父母谈话时，渐渐用成人平辈的方式称呼彼此了，这可真是前所未有的事情!(当然，如果你还伸手向父母要钱或寻求帮助，那你很可能表现得像个五岁的孩子。)
8. Understanding much more quickly who is right or wrong for you in a romantic sense, and not being as willing anymore to stick around with someone who clearly doesn't make the grade。在恋爱方面，能很快判断出对方适不适合自己，再也不会随便跟“不达标”的人耗时间了。
9 Becoming more acutely aware of how precious all the time you have with your older family members is, and how not a single day with them is guaranteed。越来越强烈意识到：和年长的亲人在一起的时光太宝贵，说不定哪一天他们就不在了。
10Learning about multivitamins。开始注意多种维生素。
11.nvesting a blender and learning about all the various magical properties of the Domesticated Smoothie. Even if this means spending a significant percentage of your income on fruits, greek yogurt, and powder supplements。买了搅拌机，开始学习“自制饮料”的各类神奇做法，哪怕你得为此花去不少银子用来买水果、希腊酸奶和面粉等辅料。
12.oming to understand that breakfast, no matter how many years you completely ignored it as a meal, is essential to having a productive day if you have to get up early and regularly and be active for the entire day。以前你一直都不拿早餐当回事，现在却发现，如果想要按时早起、白天保持精力充沛，那么早餐绝对至关重要。
13.ccepting that some of your purchases are just going to have to be quality, even if spending more money up front really makes your stomach hurt and ignites your ever-present-if-dormant "cheap asshole reflex."承认有些东西还是要买上档次的，哪怕投入这笔巨额后你会饿肚子，甚至忍受那些“机不再是失不再来”的便宜货的诱惑。
14.etting out of the phase of your judgment where things that you don't immediately recognize make you recoil in disgust. Side effects include trying scary-looking seafood, deciding to meet some of your coworker's friends for happy hour to expand your social group, and signing up for a salsa class。早已过了一看到不入眼的事情就立即心生厌恶的年纪，连带反应包括试吃奇怪吓人的海鲜、为了扩大交际圈而跟同事的朋友一起寻开心，或报名参加萨尔萨舞班。
