你就是自己的女王

1.你可以处理任何事情

Bad hair days have nothing on you. In fact, you do not let these kind of small obstacles get you down about anything else. You can take whatever anyone or everyone throws at you and serve it back with a smile on your face. See, independence is not just about doing things by yourself, it is knowing how to navigate hindrances without missing a step; and one you do stumble, you laugh and brush yourself off.

不愉快的一天对你没有任何影响。实际上，你不会让这些各种各样的小障碍让自己在其他任何方面都感到失落。你可以接受任何人或者所有人给你带来的任何事情，然后面带微笑来回击一切。看吧，独立并不仅仅是自己做事情，而是知道如何一丝不漏地处理好障碍;当你踌躇不前的时候，你会大笑，然后释然一切。

2. You have a career you love

2.你拥有自己喜爱的事业

Independence is often a product of self-reliance and self-efficacy. In other words, you pour your energy into something that only you can do and do well. When you are passionate about your goals in life, building yourself becomes up becomes easier. It is because you realize that only you can carry yourself towards the promotion, or to achieving great testimonials, or placing in the top spot of an audition.

独立往往市一种自力更生和自我效能的产物。换言之，你将自己的精力投入到只有你能做的事情上面去，然后做好。当你对自己的生活目标充满激情的时候，加强自我的提升变得越来越简单，这是因为你意识到只有你能提升自我，或者取得伟大的推荐书，或者在试音的时候能够获得最高分。

3. You think rationally

3.你能理性思考

Dependence often leads to brash actions and impulsiveness. Women who use others or an object as a crutch often fall sway to silly ideas. The independent woman, however, looks through the trends, sees the truth, and harnesses it. When you are free from the moors or socially accepted norms, you are also free to think with clarity. You can weigh consequences of your actions and do what is right by you.

依赖往往会导致焦急的行动和冲动。依靠其他人或者其他类似拐杖物体的女人，经常受到愚蠢思想的摆弄。然而，独立的女人能够看穿趋势，看到真相，并且利用这一点。当你从荒野或者社会法则方面得到解脱的时候，你也能自由清晰地思考了。你可以衡量你行为的后果，自己做正确的事情。