一个人若是找到了适合自己的工作，他便是幸福的

When I was in my teens,I read a quotation from Thomas Carlyle:“Blessed is he who has found his work.Let him ask no other blessedness.”At the time I thought that was a pretty grim remark,but I know now that Mr.Carlyle was right.When you find the thing that you can do better than anything else in the world,then all the wonderful byproducts fall in line:financial security,happy personal relationships,peace of mind.I believe that until you find it,your search for the byproducts will be in vain.

我在年少时曾读过托马斯·卡莱尔(Thomas Carlyle)的一句话：“一个人若是找到适合自己的工作，他便是幸福的，请让他别再祈求其他的幸福了。”当时，我觉得这句话过于残酷沉闷，而如今才知道卡莱尔先生是正确的。当你找到世上你能做得最好的事情时，稳定的收入、快乐的人际关系以及平静的心情等所有奇妙的“副产品”都会接踵而来。我相信，除非你找到它，否则你对一切“副产品”的追求也不过是徒劳而已。

I also believe that in the process of searching,no experience is ever wasted,unless we allow ourselves to run out of hope.In my own case,I had 34 different jobs before I found the right one.Many of those jobs were heartbreakingly difficult.A few of them involved working with unscrupulous and horribly unpleasant people.Yet,in looking back,I can see that the most unpleasant ofthose jobs,in many cases,gave me the biggest dividends—the most valuable preparation for my proper life work.

我也相信，除非我们不再有希望，否则在追寻的过程中我们的付出都不会白费。就我而言，在找到合适的工作前，我曾尝试过34种不同的工作。其中有很多工作的艰难程度简直令人难耐。在有些工作中，还会与一些不道德且令人讨厌的人相处。但是，回过头来才领悟到，在很多情况下，我从那些最令人头疼的工作中得到了最丰厚的报酬，它们成为我正确事业生涯的最有价值的准备。

And I have seen this happen in the destinies of hundreds of people.Periods which they thought were hopeless,dark,and of no possible practical value have turned out to be the most priceless experience they ever had.I know a girl who is a famous package designer for American industry.She was just given a promotion for which she competed with six well-qualified designers.Her past,like all of ours,had its good times and its bad times.One of the worst of the bad times was a period when she lost her husband and was left with two small children to support.She took a clerking job in a grocery store because her apartment was on the floor above it and between customers she could run up and keep an eye on the babies

在成百上千人的命运中，我也看到了这一点。他们拥有的最宝贵的经历，正是那些曾经被认为绝望、黑暗、不可能有实用价值的时期。我的一位朋友现在是美国著名工业包装设计师。最近，在与6位高水平设计师的竞争中，她脱颖而出，得到了提升。像我们所有人一样，她的过去也有巅峰与低谷。她失去了丈夫，还得抚养两个孩子，那是她最艰难痛苦的时期。她在自家楼下找了一份杂货店营业员的工作，这样一来，在没有顾客时她就可以抽空跑上楼看看孩子。

Yet the other day when she told me of her promotion to the top package design job,she exclaimed in astonishment,“And do you know that the single factor which swung it in my favor was that I alone had over-the-counter experience with the customers who buy our packaged foods!”

但是，在她告诉我她被提升为首席包装设计师的那天，她惊叹道：“你知道吗?只有我与购买我们包装食品的顾客有过直接的接触，而这正是我获得这份工作的唯一原因。“

When people talk about the sweet uses of adversity,I think they unduly stress a grim and kind of hopeless resignation,a conviction that,like unpleasant medicine,it’s somehow“good for us.”But I think it’s much more than that.I know that the unhappy periods of our lives offer us concrete and useful plus-values,chief among them a heightened understanding and compassion for others.We may not see it at the time,we may consider the experience entirely wasted,but,as Emerson says,“The years teach much which the days never know.”

我认为，人们在谈论逆境的益处时，过度强调了一种冷酷与绝望的顺从，一种良药苦口般的信仰——逆境或多或少都有益于我们。然而，我觉得它的益处远不止此。我知道，生活中的不幸会带给我们具体而有用的附加值，其中最主要的就是对人们更深切的理解与同情。也许，我们当时并未意识到这一点，也许会认为这些经历毫无价值，但是，正如爱默生所言：“年复一年所积累的学问，是每日每天所无法了解的。